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    Struggling to see way ahead after coming out to wife

    Highlander2: WOW - you have progressed so far so fast! You should be extremely proud of your accomplishments. You are on the right path and I...
    Post by: iadsfo, Nov 22, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
  2. iadsfo
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    Regretting all the lost time

    Abouttime, Welcome to EC! I Came Out to myself and my wife when I was 43. And regret was a powerful emotion that at first crippled me. But...
    Post by: iadsfo, Nov 16, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Do you blame your parents?

    Spaceman, Well I have not told my parents yet. But the two friends I have told, said they knew from first meeting me (as an adult) and were...
    Post by: iadsfo, Nov 8, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Does Coming Out really help resolve Depression?

    Hi all. Well, I think I can answer the question for myself now, though I am glad I posted it as the responses have been incredible and have...
    Post by: iadsfo, Nov 7, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Question for those who discovered their orientation later in life

    Gollygee, welcome! I can tell you that I always knew I felt a stronger attraction and yearning for attention from a man than a woman. I only...
    Post by: iadsfo, Nov 5, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Finding a Therapist

    Another resource to find therapists that are familiar with LGBT issues is gaylesta.org Sounds like you are on the right track already. Best of...
    Post by: iadsfo, Oct 31, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Two weeks since coming out to my wife

    Spaceman, I am so sorry to hear about your situation. I know I was very fortunate to have a spouse with a reaction that was the exact opposite...
    Post by: iadsfo, Oct 31, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
  8. iadsfo
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    To be or not to be "straight"

    I cannot say it as eloquently as Bipossible, but he is right. I first accepted the fact I am gay at 43, 20 years into my marriage. The fact...
    Post by: iadsfo, Sep 15, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Love? Monogamy?? Monagamish?

    Damn. Bipossible and JuneCleaver are giving you phenomenal advice. Between them and GreatWhale, I now know who to hit up next time I have a problem!
    Post by: iadsfo, Sep 15, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Love? Monogamy?? Monagamish?

    PeteNJ, Greatwhale is very wise and said it best. The only thing I can add is, no, you will not be OK with "monagmish". After all these years...
    Post by: iadsfo, Sep 12, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Should I come out to my wife and kids?

    Spaceman, Quick background on me: I knew I was attracted to men from a child but liek so many, I let the noise of others’ expectations and...
    Post by: iadsfo, Sep 12, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Does Coming Out really help resolve Depression?

    Exstatic = thank you for the note and words of encouragement. ---------- Post added 18th Aug 2013 at 08:15 AM ---------- Tightrope - Thanks for...
    Post by: iadsfo, Aug 18, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Does Coming Out really help resolve Depression?

    aardvark - No worries, your questions are not too private. If we don't share our experiences we will never be able to learn and grow from each...
    Post by: iadsfo, Aug 17, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Does Coming Out really help resolve Depression?

    DanDavies: Oh, dear; not that I am a doctor or any sort of mental health professional, but in my opinion, you are correct, you are depressed....
    Post by: iadsfo, Aug 17, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Does Coming Out really help resolve Depression?

    mnguy, Yes, the personal stories and experiences are inspirational to hear about and do help all of us that are fortunate enough to read them....
    Post by: iadsfo, Aug 17, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Does Coming Out really help resolve Depression?

    ormanout: Wow. First of all, thank you for publicly acknowledging all the wise and wonderful people that have participated in this thread. I am...
    Post by: iadsfo, Aug 17, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Does Coming Out really help resolve Depression?

    Hi everyone. Wow, there has been a lot of activity on this thread since I last signed in! And for me, quite a bit has happened in the past few...
    Post by: iadsfo, Aug 17, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    FWB question...

    I am guessing few would join the MeetUp group out of concern for discretion. Most gay married men I know are not out to their spouses or others....
    Post by: iadsfo, May 28, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    hi all

    Hi and welcome! Three years ago, at age 43, I came out to my wife of 20 years. My advice - tell her when you are ready to, but make it sooner...
    Post by: iadsfo, May 8, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Why I came out

    Wow. My experience has been so very different from the ones I am reading about in this thread I thought I should write to share a different...
    Post by: iadsfo, May 2, 2013 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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