I remember you from all the way back then. I followed your post from the start and I couldn't have wished for a better ending. I am so happy for you.
That was beautifully written and deeply intimate- I hope the very best for the two of you. Would you be comfortable with being the bottom in the...
Hey Alex, the others have put forth some very mature and sound pieces of advice, so I do not have much to add to the current discussion....
What statement did he say in order for you to come to this conclusion?
I would like to get some responses from everyone on how they are with texting. Do you have the tendency to instantly respond- the compulsion to...
Ryuji35, I have been following your posts and your situation for awhile now and I must say, I am a bit surprised by you. At least to me,...
hey NoClue, it's a shame that scanner isn't around nowadays- I think that, of everyone here, he understood your situation the most. Perhaps if we...
I think that you should see a doctor- or at least go to a sexual health clinic. There can be blood during anal but usually the quantity should not...
If the time comes, I think that you should tell him that you are a virgin. Preparation and participation isn't solely one sided- he has a role in...
No offence- and forgive me if this sounds insensitive, but I believe that you are being quite immature. It is perfectly normal to see other people...
Thanks AlmostBlue. It has felt like a very time since all of that... @lancelot, if there is one thing that I have learnt, it is that we are all...
Your situation is an eerie echo of my own situation that I was going through. The exception being was that I allowed it to drag out for 18 months....
There will be days, where you will find yourself thinking. Thinking so much that you may very well drown in the endless, inward spiral of your own...
I am glad to hear that. If you ever feel that this is becoming too much- please remember, that you were fine without him for more than 20 years....
Every time, no matter how tempting it may feel to sink, and to drown, swallowing bitterly the profound, if not terrifying yet irrational thought...
One thing I noticed is, to us, you have painted the very worst picture of him possible. Not once have you mentioned a single thing to recommend...
Honestly, someone gave me herpes (HPV2) once and they were asymptomatic. Ever since then, I've been incredibly reluctant to engage in even oral...
If it makes you feel any better, even if you had unprotected anal sex with someone who was HIV positive, you still have a very statistically low...
I guess we have all gone through something similar. I know I have- and another close friend of mine on this forum... It feels impossible to get...
This article spoke volumes to me... I am often one to emote and be direct with what I feel and what I am thinking. It is not good at all in a...
