I agree with you Patrick that talking therapy is so valuable. This is what I meant by it being a process rather than an event. However, one...
I have always suffered from anxiety and reactive depression but since I came out as gay and found a partner to share my life I no longer suffer...
it is easy for me to say own your true self, but like many others I repressed my gayness because society thought it was wrong and that if I wanted...
it is a big deal to you, but if you have fully accepted yourself as a gay man then you need to be open with your friends and let them know the...
I am glad that you worked with a good therapist. It can make all the difference in deep inner healing. How great it is for you now to have a photo...
Can i advise you to be very careful as once you have told your friend you can never take it back. I know it must be hard living in a world where...
I so agree with Devil Dave. It is your life and you are now an adult. Go out there and hope that you find someone you can share your life with....
I would choose Alexander I think it goes so well and he is one of the greatest men of histoy as well
I always knew that I was different from other boys that I played with. However it was when I was 11 years and started at secondary school we first...
I agree if you had an erection while dreaming perhaps that may indicate something ie that it turned you on, but you did not mention that so I...
The most important thing in all that you have said seems to be that you are not really happy with who you are. Once we have come out to ourselves...
I want to add my bit. But first congratulations on coming out to more people. The most important thing in life is for me captured in an old saying...
Like Gayhusband I want to encourage you to seek the help of a good counselor or therapist and if possible hope that he or she is gay. I suffered a...
In the end we must always look after our self and we are not responsible for another persons feelings. You may have caused your former girlfriend...
If you can work up the courage to tell her, which is very difficult, you will find a new freedom to be yourself
Well done it always feels good when we are accepted for who we truly are. This is especially true when it is a member of our own family
As an older gay guy who did not come out until I was about 30 something it was a shock to many of my friends as they had not idea. I was just...
Clovis is right come out when you are ready and that is at your own pace. Good luck in the mean time.
I am not so certain that this is the hardest, telling your wife is going to be harder. I think however you were given good advice when your friend...
Let me just say when you are a lot older like me, when people think I am ten years younger than I am, I am quite pleased, so it does have its...