Aloha from Hawaii, Tom You don't have to go on a date to meet people. There is an old saying, 'birds of a feather flock together'. So what is...
Aloha, Kevin I would like to add just one thing. Please don't let others (especially those as irrelevant as onlookers in a swimming pool) define...
"All I can I do is hold on and breathe... remind myself that if I keep doing that something will give and things will get better." You are doing...
I think you are a very caring and thoughtful person. I suggest you direct those energies to the here and the now. Be the best you can be, do the...
I suggest you not send the letter. This is ancient history and your friend has had several opportunities to restore contact if he wanted. From...
If your manager asks you to go out for drinks again, say no. Why take the risk? You said you don't have feelings for her. Broccoli's advice in...
Since you haven't started down the road to a relationship yet, I strongly recommend you don't. I recommend this for your own protection. Dating...
"Birds of a feather flock together." Get out there, pursue your interests and connect with the guys doing the same. Don't be picky and overly...
Sometimes it's better to say nothing. Or, when people ask you a point blank question, just respond with another question, "Why do you ask?" It's...
So why don't you cuddle with him and see where it goes?
I think you are in a good place, philosophically. You've surrounded yourself with good people. When it comes to love, actions DO speak louder...
How do you eat a Karelian Pie? One bite at a time. You've raised a lot of issues, but sometimes it's too overwhelming to take it all in at the...
Why don't you ask for some feedback from your friends? Ask them what you could do to look more friendly and open to positive interactions....
You should be washing all your clothes, towels and bedding in REALLY hot water. If you feel like you've done a really thorough job with the...
We travel a lot together. Shared experiences in foreign countries seems to have given us an enduring and deep bond.
Hi Q93 He sounds like a good man. He is supportive and willing to help. I think you should be open and honest with him. He is a mature man and...
I think Aptitude's advice is on the right track. Why not suggest doing something together, like going to a movie or going hiking or going...
Hi Questions93, Hopefully, by this time, the worst of the holidays is behind you! I'd like to comment on the second issue first. From your...
Hey Derrit, Have you considered getting involved in activities where the interactions are not so much one-on-one, but rather in a group? I'm...
Be kind to the person who is crazy about you. Be kind to the guy who doesn't love you back. Be kind to yourself; self-forgiveness may come with...