Don't worry too much about 'not getting it up'. Nervousness is normal, don't be ashamed if you have to take it slow. A good guy will understand....
I like your second suggestion. That's a good way to at least bring up the subject. Keep in mind though that plenty of straight guys 100% support...
Keep at it localfwbguy. You are doing well so far. One thing you can try to do is just always have something at the ready to do as an alternative...
It is possible to condition yourself to being turned on by porn and certain types of porn at the expense of actually being turned on by being with...
You are 16, your hormones are everywhere. Everything makes you horny at your age. Just don't act on those urges and don't seek it out. You'll be fine.
I have to say stories like this truly scare me and make me think very seriously about my life. I don't know if there is any advice I can offer...
I think we are. Sex is taboo in our society, but at the same time it is EVERYWHERE. I also think there is a lot of pressure to be a certain way...
I'm going through the same thing myself sort of. I think it's normal for there to be some awkwardness at first, but a true friend will get over...
That's really interesting. See, if I were to have sex with a woman I would never get bored. In fact I'd enjoy it - I have enjoyed it in the past....
Thanks for the responses! It is all very confusing so it helps to put things into words and get some response back. I think I've been frustrated...
I'm not sure this is the best title I could come up with, but here it goes. I've had sex with women and enjoyed it and the thought of having...
That's what I'm hoping. I'm starting to realize porn is a very powerful 'drug' that I've been addicted to for a long time without knowing it. It...
You are not a whore/slut at all. You just wanted to experiment it sounds like. You may have moved too quickly and weren't really ready. The...
I'm also having some issues with porn that may be somewhat similar to yours. I have been watching mostly gay porn for years, it just seems more...
Gen, you may be right. I don't know at this point. The one and only time I was with a guy, just recently I thought would affirm things for me...
Thanks for the replys. I realize I'm writing this a week after my initial post - I've been very busy with work. PeteNJ, yes I do think I am very...
So I just joined this forum and I'd like to share my story and see what people think. I'll try not to make it too long. I guess I have always...