I dye my own hair to get rid of the grey and wear much smarter clothes now that I'm out and a regular visitor to the Manchester gay village. I...
Hi Icecold I just want to agree with others that the feelings do intensify as time goes by and if you don't do something about them they start...
Hi Bibliovian I had a similar question last year, this time from a gay guys perspective, in which I attempted to map my straight past...
Hello Mumdv. Welcome to EC, you sound like a great mum and this website is a mine of useful information and support and was a fantastic help to...
Hello Athena Welcome to EC, this site has been a huge help to me after realising I was gay after 20 years of marriage. When I came out to...
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Let me start by saying what follows is not my intent to offend anybody reading this, and I apologise if I do but it’s written from the perspective...
Lots (most in reality) of straight guys want lots of sex with women and are not ashamed of it, why be ashamed of something that's natural for gay men.
Hi OnTheHighway I’m so pleased you came up to the Manchester Pride and had such a good time on your birthday, and that you managed to clear...
I'm 55, only realised that I was gay later in life and came out to my very understanding Wife 2 years ago. Feel like a teenager again after years...
Hi Folks, I've not much experience with this but at the age of 55 have been surprised how many younger guys get in touch with me. I found a...
Hi Richie, thanks for the heads up on this. I think I'll watch it first alone before watching with my wife. SGG
Hi The Falcon I’m 55 and have been married for 27 years. When I got married, in spite of knowing many gay men, I had no clue I was gay and...
Hi Highlander2 I'm still relatively new to all of this and I don't have a boyfriend so I can't comment directly but I have read a good book on...
Hi Layladylay Welcome to EC, it's a great place for advice, support, and friendship. I'm 55 and I don't feel too old, in fact I feel like a...
Hi Folks Just a quick note to let you know it’s never too late. I didn’t start to realise I was gay until my mid-40s and it took until my...
Hi Folks HuskyPup: Thanks for your enlightened thoughts on the possibility of a “playmate” within a long term trusting relationship to balance...
Hi User199 Just go for it. I'm 55 and had the same reservations about joining a support group and whilst it's true that most of the 30 - 40...
OnTheHighway: Thanks for the flipside viewpoint, I will tread carefully with this new friendship and see where it takes me but would only feel...
Hi Tssoe02 First welcome to EC this is a great site for understanding and coming to terms with our own sexuality and I’m sure you will find it...