Learned from the leader of my coming out group: You accept yourself when not doing so gets in the way of your life You come out to people when...
I'm deeply pining for the man I broke up with in November. I've reached out to him, his reaction is one of don't re open my deep wounds. Of...
Hello All -- I posted recently, apparently a bit too explicitly about singing in a gay men's chorus... so I won't name names, but its a key...
Mediation. Great Idea. But a crap shoot. Did mediation with ex, had an agreement. Here in N J you then take it to your own attorney. Her...
Non monogamous gay men should seriously consider PrEp. As should other men and women who are at risk. While most HIV cases are among gay man,...
I don't get how being "conservative" fiscally makes some gay folk graviate towards being Republican. When I was in college, I was an avid /...
Hugs! You can put on the face of normalcy just so long. Clearly you passed as heteroplausible for a long time... and now you're ready to end...
To me its so freakin discordant -- that on one hand many conservatives want government hands off business regulations, taxes, guns, etc. and yet...
So if there were a pill you could take every day that would 99% stop you from getting cancer -- wouldn't you say its crazy not to take it? 60%...
Welcome. Its your life. And your happiness is up to you. Sound like you're taking steps to do what's good for -- keep doing LOTS of that!...
OMG.. due for a colonscopy...soon.... That said, my PCP, who is gay, referred me, so maybe the Gastro is gay, too? thanks for the...
That sound great! Similar trajectory here, too. Broke up with my ex and he moved out in December. I've been dating other men... and it only...
So I'm a firm believer that if one therapist doesn't do it for you -- find another. For a period of time I spent far too long with the wrong one....
Purplefrog, I was in that same place for a month or so. Sad, deep, hurt, so stuck on how could someone have treated me like that (and I let...
Hey all -- I spent some time on the sofa with a blanket pulled over my head. Then started dating again ;-). Really does heal wounds,...
Fantastic Jae! How are you now? I had a great partner for the last couple years. We were both alpha males, sounds like you, and yes, that's...
Awesome New Year's Eve post! Wonderful story of the liberation, challenges. I really like that you can laugh a bit at yourself and have a sense...
Hello Tom, Consider... using one of the gay hook up apps, not necessarily to find a hook up, but as a kind of barometer to the gay life in an...
Its natural that you miss her, dont beat yourself up about it, and don't get caught in the possible pull that you need to go back to her, take...
Black tie sex -- that fits in with at least one fantasy I have ;-) I can argue that "morality" defines sex as monogamous, I can argue that...
