Heh...yeah, in the corner with a ball of string, making wubba-wubba-wubba noises. It does make you wonder how much your brain has manipulated...
Yeah, surreal is a great way to describe it. I also have to wonder if my feeling of comfort regarding sex with a man again is inaccurate--haven't...
I'm wondering if anyone else out there has had this experience? I was in relationships with men exclusively for 30+ years (I'm female) then...
I’m sorry in advance for the length, and the triggery-ness of this, but details are needed to convey the totally baffling weirdness of this...
Possibly one thing to try to keep in mind is that the human heart can be a very large place, with room for all sorts of love. True, your marriage...
Hi all, Haven't been here much lately, I've been away, hanging out on the most cut-throat forum I have ever seen, trying to learn a few things...
Here's the issue: It's impossible for a person who is out to have good self esteem if they're stuck in a relationship with someone closeted. I...
And also I feel I should apologize to Ratchet for having this distract from his question...perhaps it would be better to suggest that comments to...
You are right, I'm not out. This is why I felt I had something in common with the situation the OP was talking about, and why I chose to comment....
Oh, Chip....I try so hard to never get confrontational at this site, because that is not the purpose of it, and it doesn't help in most cases. But...
I thnk it's great to talk about your feelings with him, and to try to gain a greater understanding of his thoughts and feelings also. But don't...
Given your age, the chances that you won't meet someone, or multiple someones, to have relationships with seems slim to me. I think the flip side...
Hi, I found there were some profound differences between dating a man and a woman. With a man, no one ever stared, glared, or yelled at us for...
I'm really sorry you had to go through that. It's harsh, and wrong. But unfortunately not unheard of. My gf has been discouraged from spending...
keep in mind the rule that says it will take you at least half as long as you were together to get over being apart. I have found it generally...
1. It has given me an understanding of what minorities can experience out in the world, something that life as a straight woman never taught me....
Selecting who knos and who does not can work fine, as long as the two groups don't intersect. Think about George (from Seinfeld) and his fear that...
Just throwing my .02 in-- I am still in the closet. My girlfriend has been out for 20+ years. She couldn't care less that I don't tell anyone,...
Hi Queen Bee, I understand where you're coming from. I had all of one ovary removed at 17, and half of the other removed at 18. It is hard to...
I am struggling with the same questions. I have to say awareness is looking like one saving grace in the equation. The thing is a lot of the time...
