Re: Given up trying to being gay That is what I'm hoping for. Unfortunately in my scenario, 10 years have elapsed and there has been no...
Re: Given up trying to being gay There are always limits when you push the boundaries. Choosing a career that does not conform to parental...
Re: Given up trying to being gay Decisions, decisions, decisions... Isn't marriage a mistake that every man should be allowed to make? Even...
Re: Given up trying to being gay I agree with what you are saying. I wish my circumstances were different. But I need to integrate with my...
Re: Given up trying to being gay I've re-read your post. Thanks for your words of wisdom greatwhale! I think even a cease-fire would give me...
Re: Given up trying to being gay Your conclusions sound very rational, but authenticity comes in many forms. Imagine authenticity being on a...
Re: Given up trying to being gay Peace is a prize. I've already spent a considerable amount of time asserting and fighting a force that pulls...
Re: Given up trying to being gay I do intend on telling the woman I marry - that is the very reason I started this thread. I am open to the...
Re: Given up trying to being gay Hi Stash, thank you so much for your insights. Indeed, I come from a very conservative family. Compared to...
I've been through a very long process of trying to come out for over 10 years and have come to the realisation that I should get married to a...
Wow! That's a huge list of options - thanks for everyone's input :) It'll take me a bit of time to go through it all and select the ones that my...
Thank you for all the suggestions :) v for vendetta sounds like a good one to start with... something that's a little subtle. Prayers for Bobby...
Are there any good movies or shows that can very gently introduce/assist/desensitise homophobic parents to accepting they have a gay child? In...
I wish I wasn't born, but hey I'm still alive... barely kicking. Maybe resu's right, I'm just a slave after all. :icon_sad:
Thank you for all your responses :) Although I'm feeling down and depressed, it has given me some food for thought. My apologies in advance if I'm...
I've been around this place for quite some time now (thank you to all the friendly EC Staff - you know who you are!), but have only just garnered...
