I understand your concerns about being the second son to come out as gay, but from what you say, your parents will be totally OK with it. Sure, it...
Hate to give an overly simplistic answer, but you just have to find the right occasion, muster up the courage and do it! I told my dad just after...
Cheating is bad enough, this is just so wrong! Texts during sex, really? Do not become his partner in crime ;) Seems like getting away is the...
You know, I realized I was gay at 16 and came out soon after. To you, that seems really early and wonderful. But at the time, being in my last...
Here's the good news: the closest you are to coming out, the scariest it seems. So if you're scared shitless, you're pretty close to coming out!...
Hey RubiksCube, I can see how this is really rough. I understand how hard it must be for people to not understand your true identity. The good...
Hey, I really enjoyed your monster of a post. I think you just need to really think of what attracts you sexually to know what you like. But...
Hey guys, thanks very much for all your advice, it's very much appreciated. Thankfully, this issue is now basically solved? Turns out there was...
Hey ECers, I need your help as I've dug myself into a bit of pickle. Here's the situation. Sorry for the length, but hopefully it's entertaining!...
OK, a few things :) 1. You obviously care about those around you, especially your mom. That's a great quality, but sometimes you need to think of...
The feelings are very common with guys coming to term with their sexuality. Throughout my adolescence, I was clearly sexually attracted to guys. I...
Wow. You just described my entire high school experience up to the end of 10th grade for me. Not in the details, but in the basic premise:...
I understand how your situation is delicate. A fraternity is not the most gay-friendly environment, at least at first glance. Congratulations on...
Your mom doesn't hate you. She seems to be having a really hard time coming to terms with what she perceives to be "the new you". I think that,...
Your story is inspiring. Congratulations for coming out to your sister and brother. It was really tough but you did it! Hang in there. I imagine...
Welcome to EC :) I understand your sadness and your disappointment. I imagine you feel so close to having found a perfect match and there's this...
Really great story — props to Claire! I'm so glad for you and her, it sounds like a great friendship. It gets better.
This is tough. Definitely finish your freshman year, get a real feel for biology/science/pre-med. If you do switch, you want to make sure you're...
People have different expectations of what's acceptable and what's not for communicating. I get annoyed when people send me texts to just talk...
Congratulations on coming out! This is a very important step :) Regardless of the official illegality of homosexuality in Signapore, how are the...
