Anything you try to do about this is possible so far as short term. It's the long term that will wear you down and turn you into a depressed...
What we should all want to strive for is excellence rather than perfection. Excellence can really exist and be cherished.
Well, you gave her leverage, or so it seems. Perhaps you need not give her everything, every bit of money and the house. But rather make these...
Well-written and I hope you are feeling a bit better. Love losses are the toughest aren't they. Glad you ditched the fake god, time to move on...
I know that the times in my life when I have felt like you I leaned on artistic endeavors and specific interest hobbies. I have many of those....
But she knows about the porn. So the cat is out of the bag ain't it? And her understanding or forgiveness on this matter is not in your hands....
At least you have gotten to this point, and are able to reflect and see things fairly clearly. You may as well spill it out, tell us what else is...
I think we will see more younger guys and girls coming out earlier. We've already seen this happening, but the pace will pick up even more. This...
Yes, I think you are a little weird. But then everyone is as well. Nobody is saying "you got this, now get over yourselves" at all. This...
Very sad to read this. Because once you have experienced really great sex with another man, or to fall in love with another man (and have great...
This does sound like it's going to work out ok. This person is a real friend. He might even be glad you shared something so personal, and it...
I found a stack of porn magazine out in the desert. I filled through them and read bits of the commentary. The pictures were all black and...
I would not put a label on it or ask him if he considers himself anything. I would not even get him to admit he likes guys, or likes guys and...
I think moving to a new place, a new city is the best way for people to grow and be out when they previously were not able to. It's a way to make...
They don't need to know. It's as simple as that. But you can be out to others as you feel the need to be, or not.
"I felt like I had zero connection with anyone past a superficial we'll chat a minute during coffee hour. Despite attending four different...
I am of the opinion that kids will come out earlier, and more often now in this day and age. And that recent events like Obama mentioning gay...
I agree that writing things out, and making lists is helpful with making things happen that you want to happen. "To do" lists and "goals" lists...
It's fine to go slow and get answers when you are ready for them. There are times when being open or out is not a good idea. Then there are...
There is a time to come out and slowly begin to be completely out, or partially out. Then there is also the time to not come out. When I was...