Here is an (awkward) update. Yesterday I went on my second date with the girl mentioned above, this time for dinner at this Japanese izakaya I...
Excellent post, RainbowMan. This helped me a lot. All of my closer male friends are "guy's guys," if you know what I mean, and I can't ever see...
I'm in exactly the same boat. I know I have some attraction to girls and actually just began seeing one. But I've only ever done semi-sexual stuff...
Thanks! :) I just worry about hurting her if I decide it can't work, but I'm probably thinking too much. I also often wonder about if,...
Just to update, today I had a coffee date with a really cute girl. The funny thing is this "coffee date" ended up turning into a three-hour chat....
I totally understand where you're coming from. I had a coffee date just today actually with a really cute girl. I am attracted to her, but I feel...
AshesofAshley, thanks. I think you're right that it's not worth getting worked up over figuring it out. That being said, I'm not sure when I'll be...
Thanks, cm81990. That is actually a great idea. It has occurred to me before, actually, but I just don't know how to make it happen. It would have...
Thanks, I don't think that's the case. I've felt more lonely lately and that something is "missing," as in sometime else in my life. And I've...
Thanks, everyone and sorry for the slow reply. Your advice helped a lot. I think I do need to try with women. That should make things at least...
But is the "etiquette" that if you receive you should give, if you will? I'm really pretty clueless about this. What confuses me is that some seem...
I just came back to this thread after a few months' hiatus. I'm glad to see you guys are still going strong! You're so lucky to have found each other.
Thanks, guys. Lewnatic, it was actually three including the current one, but I guess that's not important. Perhaps you're right. There are...
I've been struggling with my sexuality for nearly as long as I can remember. In the past couple of years I accepted the possibility of being gay,...
All good points. It just seems to me that his involvement in a hoax like this to enhance his draft stock is so unlikely to make a difference that...
Hey guys, I'm wondering what your thoughts might be on this. I'm sure many of you have been hearing the relentless news about Manti Te'o,...
MaxAttack, I almost could have written your post. I am struggling with the exact same issue and am not even sure what I would come out to people...
Sorry for the extremely delayed response and thanks so much for the replies. Hsj22, what you describe is exactly how I feel. Lately I've been...
You write so well and seem to completely understand my situation. I definitely have a fear of being perceived as gay and that that perception...
Thanks, malcstep. Your post makes a lot of sense. I have no problem with other people being gay but feel very resistant to going that route...
