It's been over a decade for me. I am rarely active now but I went through a stage of my life where I loved talking about sexuality/gender identity...
My orientation did change, but gradually over a decade. This shouldn't be controversial--peoples' tastes age like wine. You can gravitate to...
I know the conflict. Love needs to steer the ship. Wherever you find that, whichever way it leads you, you can draw strength from it to make tough...
I have moods where I'm anything from kinsey 1 to 5. When I'm in the wrong mood sex (with that sex) is a chore. When I'm in the zone it's the best....
Sorry I forgot to include a pure mustache option. I realize those are 'in' again these days.
If I could forget being bi and have always been gay I might do it. Straight dating is insanely hard for someone with my temperament. If I could...
Had a grandfather who crossdressed. A very distant cousin is gay. Maybe some of the others are bi but I don't know. I am the only out queer in...
Star Trek (any)
24 years old. Had a date with a rando I met on OKC. It escalated to awkward sex on the first date. I was practically shaking with how nervous I...
12 - I'm going to break format and just say what my year was. It was a 7.5. One of the better years for me in a while. A challenging year with...
This post resonates very strongly with me. I had an extremely similar situation with a narcissistic best friend who manipulated me into this weird...
I had 3 relationships. 1 girlfriend I was not out to. 1 girlfriend I was out to. And 1 boyfriend I was out to. The latter two were allowed to be...
It's a matter of conquering hangups. The ick will dissolve with time and experience.
King Crimson - "Starless" Talking Heads -"The Overload" Hum - "Shapeshifter" Failure - "Small Crimes" Old Man Gloom - "Seminar III" Neil Young -...
Purple and Green
You'd be surprised how willing women actually would be to date someone with your history. For me the problem has always been getting near them to...
Personally, my feeling is that if you have a bad face you can't go wrong. Go hog wild with the facial hair. Have fun with it. I'm not a big beard...
Every lesbian I've ever met has had some kind of strong aversion to male facial hair. Almost exactly this same opinion. It makes perfect sense...
I've been tinkering with my facial hair as I've grown older and realized the clean cut "boy nextdoor" look might not necessarily be the best for...
Vastly prefer queer to LGBTQ+. The acronym conveys the infighting and the confederation of sexual minorities into insular cliques that don't get...