I've heard people say that and it pisses me off because it's dismissive and offensive. Like, did I choose to be gay today because it's cool or...
That might be internalized homophobia as was said before. In itself, the fact is it's 2 guys having sex. And then there are the emotions we...
OMG! That's hard to hear that, man! It's better to say it as nicely as you can than keeping it for you after that, you don't wannabe an angry...
Your brother has his own insecurities that he has to deal with and while you can educate him, you can't change him, HE has to change. It's not...
I wanted to chat to know how u do the happy thing but I can't PM u because I'm not a Full Member...
The attitude thing, totally agree, I understand it intellectually and now I have to experience it in real life. Just need to be patient with...
I'm trying to listen and be open but frankly, I am feeling lectured on what I should think. I'm not saying that you're doing it on purpose but...
Yes, I spent lots of time on the French riviera and I know multi-millionaires trying to commit suicide, killing themselves, depressed etc. in...
Ultimately, I want to own Real Estate because I need passive income to get rich, i.e. like a paycheck every month from the rental properties....
I was at this personal development seminar the other day to look for a kick in the butt so I can get motivated. The guy told me in front of the...
Congrats on your coming out!!!! That's a great step! I think the GLBT Center is the best place to start because you can start opening up and...
What are you going to do then, insidehappy? There is one thing you need to work on for sure is self-acceptance. Do I think it sucks being gay?...
Life is really not about keeping up with everybody else or about other's opinions in general. What I'm saying is you need to have a big dream...
At the same time, Dano22, doesn't that feel good to come out once the awkward moment is gone? I know I said that to my Real Estate Agents, that...
Right now, I'm feeling that I did real progress in terms of self-acceptance. I'm actually thinking that I can accept being gay and I've been...
I need to rant about my need to be out of the closet and how at work, it seems such a risk to come out. I feel like taken between 2...
The big deal is that it makes you unhappy that you're not coming out to your parents. Your parents know that you're unhappy and parents don't want...
I told my grandparents with snail mail. I really couldn't do it face 2 face. I guess in the end, it's up to everyone of us to measure the...
You really need some love. (*hug*) I feel for you very much, being myself depressed from 13 year old, I know the condition, and I can imagine...
If you already know that you don't want to pursue it, then you shouldn't pursue it! It sounds like you already know what you want to do: 'improv'...