Hi I am a guy and have the same problem as you. It is described by Joe Kort as being a heteroromantic homosexual, or in your case a homoromantic...
Yes, but I don't think I can wait another 10 years. I would give my life for my kids but I don't think my coming out will kill them. What I think...
I also found this link Tips for “Coming Out” to Your Kids About Your Sexual Orientation
I've never done it, but looks like I will need to sometime soon and I have read about this a fair bit and the majority of the advice seems to the...
Hi My story is probably pretty typical of those married gay guys on here, but I am having a tough time and I am just going around and around in...
Without knowing, I also came out today, and had the same response from my wife. I am also in shock not believing what I have done and my wife has...
This morning, after all my worrying and waiting and planning, I came out to my wife of 9 years. She was wonderfully kind and I am the luckiest...
I don't have any gay friends, and I have never had a relationship with a guy. I have my therapist and the local gay married men's group and...
Joe Kort is a gay therapist in USA. He has come up with a test which seems accurate. Imagine you're at the beach with sunglasses on. No-one can...
Hi No, I never felt like my marriage was a sham. Nor do I regret one moment of it. I love my wife and cherish my children. But as time has gone by...
For what my journey is worth it started with the sudden unexpected death of a friend. I was approaching 40 and thought, well I have had these...
I don't think I can message people, but I will watch the forums. I have been going to a counsellor and yesterday I finally realised that, as you...
Hi I'm in exactly your position and know how horrible it is. I love my wife to bits and will hate to see her hurt. I'm planning to tell her on 28...
Hi I am in the same boat, although I have not even come out to my wife, although that is coming soon. But I do read a lot of blogs and see your...
I am exactly where the original poster is. I know I'm gay now, although I still question myself some days but don't have the guts to come out to...
