Yes I agree. Counselling is very helpful. Just having that space oncevavweek thatis just about you and where you do not have to be concerned about...
Jumping when people touch me unexpectedly Laughing nervously whenever someone looks too long at me Putting my socks on in the same order every...
Coming out was very difficut for me. I didn't really start until I went back to college for a second time in my early twenties. I grew up in an...
Yeah. I felt like that a lot when I was first coming to terms with being gay. I hide it from everyone and felt so bad everytime I lied about it. I...
Tough one. My advice is: 1) try to understand that he probably has his own issues. He may be confused himself. 2) try to keep some distance....
Thanks Chip The issue for me is the difference between behaviours that can be healed because they are caused by abuse (& so learned I guess) and...
It's nothing illegal or dangerous, but it consumes so much of my waking thoughts. It gets in the way of sex especially. Sex without it seems dull...
I'm gay with Aspergers, and have struggled to deal with both. I was also sexually abused in my pre and early teens. I spent many years in therapy...
Realise that this might be a bit of a late response but based on my experience: 1) coming out is your choice not a requirement or rule 2) come out...
I have always been a bit obsessive about things, but I have a strong fetish that is getting a bit out of control. Are you in a similar position ?...
Dave - it was great to find your post. I've not long found out I'm an aspie. It has taken me a while to come to terms with it. I find...
