It will likely take him some time to process it all, so you may need to be patient with him for a while, difficult as that may be. If he's facing...
Hey Rayland, I think coming out to the important people in your life is a really healthy thing to do, assuming you feel safe in doing so. I'm...
Hey Sandra, at twenty years old, it's the perfect time to explore this. That's literally what everyone is doing at that stage of life. If you have...
Sorry mate, wasn't accusing anyone in particular of being a rubbery, dirty steak! I'm sure there are tops out there that prance around to...
Thanks mate, you've described the situation perfectly. Happy to chat about it with you as well. Seems like the best way of figuring things out,...
There is certainly a particular kind of freedom involved, that I appreciate. It could be that it's drawing out something that was forced out of...
Thanks Rayland, you have a cool mind . Look, there has certainly been a lot of porn over the years, haha. But I watched mtf trans porn for a...
Thanks complicated, seems like we're in similar situations. It's certainly difficult to unpack and make sense of all this stuff when you love and...
Thanks Rayland, your earlier post about porn was helpful too. I think perhaps I phrased the question too broadly. I can see how people can look...
I considered that it was internalised homophobia as I wrote that too. I think socially, that mindset is necessary to form friendships with men....
I've thought about what wua said since he posted it and I'm with you exactly, eron. I think women are are generally more beautiful but men are...
Thanks again for posting this BiGemini. I've had it in mind since you posted it and it has actually been quite helpful because it made me account...
Thanks wua, I'll reflect on whether what you say is true but my gut reaction is that it isn't. It's actually a tough question to answer though...
Thanks for your input BiBarefeet. Perhaps what we want to do in bed is really the core of sexuality and we just need to find a person who aligns...
Thanks and thank you for your input. It did help me sift through things.
Actually at this point, I think I just identify as gay. I think that internalised homophobia has played a role. I do find my attraction to women...
My default, go-to for most of my adult life was trans porn. I always looked up dick pics from time to time but mostly it was transwomen that...
Thanks Complicated, I appreciate your perspective. It sounds like we have situations that are similar in some ways. The only thing that works is...
It's okay, I asked for judgement and directness. I've considered a sex therapist but I've had pretty horrendous experiences with homophobic...
Thanks BiGemini. I appreciate your response. I'm not sure what insight or solutions people can really give, I'm just still a bit lost with this on...
