I understand your struggle. I really do. I loved my wife dearly and wanted to stay with her. You have probably already tried fantasizing about...
It's just that your story is very similar to mine in a lot of ways. I used to have to fantasize about men in order to have sex with my wife. The...
Good for you for having that conversation. You have reached that point where you feel like you can't keep doing the same thing. Having sex with...
I do understand exactly what you are going through. As a gay man who came out to his wife and ultimately separated, I know the grief that I felt...
I'm A gay man and I find women attractive to look at. The reason I know that I am gay and not straight or even bi is because I have no desire at...
I'm not 100% convinced that sexual orientation is fixed at birth and can't change over time. When I was younger I really liked girls. I had no...
I like the word queer. Personally, I identify as gay but the word queer connects me to a larger group of people that I feel like I am a part of....
As gay men, we have to realize how hurtful and unfair this can be to a woman. They can sense that something is wrong with your sex life as a...
I think this experience is very common for those of us who didn't fully realize our sexual orientation until later in life. We think that if we...
I understand what you're going through. I didn't want to be gay, but no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't be straight. Eventually I came to a...
I can definitely relate to all of these posts. So many years in the closet afraid of what others might think. It was a process of gradually...
I also identify as gay but biromantic. It took me awhile to understand it, but that's who I am. The interesting thing about labels is that they...
Years ago I would have said straight. But I tried being straight and I was unhappy. Now that I have accepted myself as gay, I am so much happier...
I know what you mean about dating apps being disappointing. It took me a long time before I finally connected with a guy I like. Having that first...
I think it's very normal to find both men and women attractive. I'm a gay man who finds some women to be very beautiful. I think the biggest...
Hi Rachel! You have found a good place to reach out to people who understand where you're at and can talk about it without judgement. You are not...
I definitely understand the struggle. Your husband clearly wants to be with a man and you are worried about what this means for your marriage. I...
I am a gay man married to a straight woman. I came out as bi 5 years ago, and then gay 3 years ago. We have been married for a total of 33years....
I remember when I realized I was oriented towards men but I didn’t want to identify as gay. I had to work through my internalized homophobia and...