That's a tough question. I'm bi and came out (even to myself) relatively late, in my 40s, so it's certainly possible this was always there and...
Of course. Hopefully there's something there that helps. One thing I do still struggle with, and it sounds like you may be, too, is how to...
That seems like a good way to look at it. It's understandable that it's a little scary for her as it is something new. To that I can add I have...
No worries, that's fine. No, I don't think that's it. I prefer to think of it as attraction to multiple genders, but that aside it doesn't have...
Well said. That was my experience. When I first began to realize I was bisexual I really wasn't sure and I described myself as bi-curious at that...
I don't think that's quite right, at least for me. I realized I was bisexual after getting married and I'm committed to that relationship so I...
Attraction by itself is probably not enough, true. In my post I was just using that as a shorthand. Ultimately a label should be a tool to aid in...
This is key, I think. When questioning there can be a desire to sort of 'force' a reaction which is understandable but not helpful. Using my own...
'Twas all good. This group was among the last ones I told directly, and I did do a wider Facebook post later just to put it fully out there.
Hmm. I'm not sure about the chair thing but I only occasionally tuck in my shirts and never throw peace signs in photos.
Of course that can be a factor, this was just an example. The real key with that was the relaxation of an activity that required enough...
Ugh. Sorry to hear that. Sometimes this stuff just seems to all come to a head at once and can feel overwhelming. That's no fun. quebec's advice...
I need to get it done again. I've wanted to for a while and now even more so as it seems like a good avenue for self expression.
Agreed with the above, generally speaking, a label should be a tool, not a straightjacket. As far as what you're feeling, just go with it. It...
A friend of mine (who is also a late blooming Bi, and among the first that I came out to) shared this article with me earlier today. The title...
That was one of my signs. I've used one occasionally for a long time and at some point I noticed I wasn't just enjoying the sensations but was...
Definitely what Rayland said, that seems like number one. Are the medical issues resolved, or at least as well as they can be, or is something...
It's absolutely really difficult, even in the best of cases. I came out as Bi to my wife first. I didn't really plan it, it just sort of happened...
Yep, i 'd guess this isn't unusual, it's certainly true for me, too, and some of them seem so obvious in retrospect that I think I must have been...
Societal pressure is definitely a thing. Speaking from the Bi perspective it was really easy for me to hide my sexuality from myself because my...
