I have several people in my life who think I should put my sexuality to the test by having an experience with a man. My therapist suggested this...
I identify with this completely. Gay sexual fantasies appeared ahead of real life attraction, but as I become more comfortable with the idea of my...
Mobius, I am 41 years old and in a similar situation. I've always been extremely attracted to women, and until two months ago never had same sex...
Interesting thought about identifying with the women in porn. I definitely think my deepest sexual urges are submissive, so this would make sense....
Here's a question: Did any of you find the idea of another man with your wife arousing prior to realizing your bisexuality or gayness? It's a kink...
Thank you. I'm slowly getting there, but I clearly have some deeply ingrained homophobia from my religious and cultural upbringing. I was a devout...
I know you are right, but the ambiguity is really challenging for me. I think I might need more time (and maybe sexual experiences) to recognize...
Bisexual is my current conclusion, if I have to have one. It's really hard to not think in binary terms when that is the way I've perceived...
Checking back in on this. The gay fantasies continue and gay thoughts often intrude into daily life. I am still very confused. I know this will...
That's the million dollar question, I guess. I can't go behind her back. She's a good person, and I don't think I could keep that from her in good...
It sounds like you had to try sex with a man to “really” know? Sex with women has been enjoyable for me, but given my enjoyment of masturbating...
I meant “intensely attracted to women”. Was that the case for you?
Thanks for your input. I really don’t recall much same sex attraction as a kid, but I do recall being attracted to plenty of girls.
Thank you very much for your replies. I will definitely take a look at the Later in Life forums. It seems right now I'm somewhere on the bisexual...
Hi, All, I'm a married man with kids. I've identified as straight my whole life, never having had same sex attraction until about a month ago. It...
