Interesting thread to read through. I was just thinking about how my libido has finally evened out. After realizing I was gay and coming out, I...
I've never had any explicitly sexual experiences, but my first some-what intimate experience with another girl was when I was fourteen. I had a...
I knew I wasn't attracted to men for yearsss before I realized I was gay. It took me into my twenties to get to the point where I was comfortable...
It is certainly possible that you are on the ace spectrum. However, I would also say that, if you are in an exploratory/questioning phase; don't...
This is a very interesting theory, and very well may be true in some cases. However, it does not account for bisexuals who did not experience any...
I pretty much came out all at once, only for me that was only to friends and family. I don't go to school, and I don't know my coworkers well...
*unattractive. Miss-typed.
As a fellow aspie, I am in a similar boat. I am a 21 yr old super-virgin. Never dated, never been kissed. However, the few valuable relationship...
Hopefully you'll post when you do find your guy, I'm invested in your story now. :) I'll share as well, when I find a girlfriend (ugh, I feel so...
exactly the same. I can't believe I felt so alone at the time.
Same. Had multiple opportunities for romantic connection with men, and always felt like it wasn't "right", it never made me excited, even when I...
Nice to see this engaging conversation come from my personal post. I empathize a lot- it's very comforting to see that my confusion and denial is...
Actually, you have very clearly summed up my situation. It's almost like we are the same people- but opposite genders/sexuality. I think for me,...
Thanks for this! Very helpful information for myself as well.
Yea.. It's definitely unrealistic to expect everything to get better, and even though I believe coming out does lift a weight off, it's a gradual...
First, congrats!! Second, I completely relate to your conflicting feelings regarding your parent's response. I just came out to my parents as...
Thank you! :D
I'm not going to go into too much detail, but I came out to both my conservative parents. I did not plan to do so anytime soon. An opportunity...
Hello, everybody. After a few months of this weirdly sudden and unexpected sexual identity crisis, I have finally gotten past the bargaining phase...
Really enjoyed reading through this thread. As someone who's currently going through the questioning/bargaining phase of "coming out" to myself,...
