Based on what you've shared so far, I don't see much reason to believe that you're a lesbian. It appears you have a long history of feeling...
Based on that, along with things you've posted elsewhere on here, it would seem that you are indeed attracted to men. Do you ever feel that way...
I think there are varying takes on this. From what I’ve observed, it seems some people identify as gay or lesbian even though they may very...
I read some of your posts on other threads, and I see that you've spoken about having OCD. I am certainly no expert on that topic, so I can only...
Wow! It’s been two years since I posted all of that. It’s interesting to see where I was at in regard to accepting my sexuality. Certainly, my...
I can relate to a lot of what you've been through, especially in regard to growing up in a time and place where being gay was not accepted and...
Thank you for your kind words of encouragement and for being non-judgmental regarding my current situation. I'm so sorry to hear about your...
It’s taken a very long time for me to get here, but I’ve finally begun to accept that I’m gay once and for all. Living in denial is no longer an...
I'm somewhat embarrassed to admit I have quite a bit of experience using dating apps, having used them off and on for about ten years during my...
I also grew up in the ‘80s and ‘90s in a small conservative town. Messages I received from television, movies, etc. along with many of the adults...
Your situation is certainly one that many can relate to. You are definitely not alone. I've only been posting on here semi-regularly for a few...
I'm also struggling to overcome internalized homophobia and the guilt and shame that comes with it. I also once believed that I would know right...
I suppose there could be some guilt involved. I do feel like I'm deceiving her at this point. However, the main reason is simply because I'm...
I'm not married, but I've been living with my girlfriend for the last two years. I can get the job done, but I don't look forward to it. It's...
I have a female friend I was thinking about coming out to. I've known her for many years, and we talk several times a week. I'm absolutely...
I think I always knew I was attracted to men, at least on a subconscious level. I think the first time the thought that I might be gay occurred...
I've had a similar realization recently. I still tend to notice attractive women when I'm out in public. I used to just automatically assume...
I would also agree that it's probably fine to message him. I was kind of in a similar situation recently with a former coworker from five years...
I suppose it might be a bit easier to make the transition if your boys are soon to be on their own. It's one less thing to worry about at least....
Unfortunately, I’m in a position where it would be highly unlikely I could afford a home suitable for myself and my kids on just my current...
