Firstly, welcome to EC. A ramble is sometimes necessary. It lets one process things you are stuck with. Orientation is difficult to determine....
It takes a bit if time to figure out where you fit in, and I think that is normal.. al of us go through it, in some or other way, so know you will...
O... working through things.. got the wife to also go see my therapist.. so she had her first session.. and some follow-up ones already.. so its...
Gauging your posts and the tone thereoff, I personally think you would love kissing a girl. Kissing is one off my favourites. First time may be...
"Showing up is 80% of the work".. and I commend you for it. It seems that you are doing that. I can not give input (Wonderlost is doing a good job...
The journey to acceptance, for some of us, is a long and treacherous path. As we go through the emotions, as humans, we do have that point where...
Butterflies ... that is a way I measure attraction .. if you feel butterflies in your core, I think its a good indication of where you are...
I think that if I was to come out more openly, this would also be the way I would go.. .ease people into it, let them question, and then confirm....
For most part ot was ok, was complaining the following day. Was in the mountains... was more bitching about getting lost than anything else
Some insight would be sprouting from your relationship with your wife, my opinion. For you coming out, and exposing that part of you to your wife...
Went hiking .. got lost.. took me 3 hours and a extra 5 miles to get out.. fun and games.
When we consider our label, it seems more to do with how others see us, rather how we see ourselves. I agree with the concept of using bi as the...
I will keep my vote at that for now.. (with available info) I does not sound as if you are swinging to the bi side though .. I think that would...
Wording this coming out expose' so to say, would be interesting. I like the idea of doing it in such a "light" manner, for those who get it .....
Thinking out loud, sometimes a small gesture can spark a sense that you care about her and just maybe spark a change, not something over the top,...
I think you are a bit hard on your self and I think you are doing great in assessing how you are feeling. I think this is normal and as a parent...
74, sad to hear you are in this situation. I am not picking any side, (not getting in the middle, so to speak), but want you to know that you have...
I came out to my first therapist more than 4 years ago. He happened to also be gay and supper religious. That created a whole new dynamic. He...
O yes... venting.. forgot about that one. Its good that you do, get it out of your system...it allows you to work through your thoughts and...
Considering a future one needs to contemplate what really makes you happy. And I mean "really" .. its a mistake many of us made going through our...
