I'm happy to hear that I'm not the only one who has had these experiences. Thank you for sharing. While I know I am attracted to women (I can't...
Something that I notice in lesbian or bisexual women is that they don't feel that anxiety I feel around other women; oftentimes I hear them say...
I'm sorry you are struggling with this issue too! I love being alone at home and wish that it could translate to the real world, but I can't seem...
How did you realize it was an act? For me, I'm so tolerant and used to the act that it doesn't feel like an act at all. Thank you. I thought I...
The title sounds weird, I know, so I'll try to explain. I've noticed that when I'm home (I live alone), I slowly become more comfortable of my...
The way I see it is that it's still in the realm of platonic friendship, but much deeper. Like a soulmate. A soulmate doesn't necessarily have to...
Hi @Tai, I've read your story and have been following this thread and can relate a lot to your experiences with women, to an extent. So I...
But I also learned that singlehood is what makes me happiest. :)
The reason I'm getting this out now is that I'm actually feeling sadness about my situation, whereas in the past, I would only feel...
Umm... so I've lost complete interest in dating women and am now starting to view men as potential romantic partners. I'm completely fed up with...
What made you realize that it wasn't really love or attraction? I know you said you had already figured out you were gay, but what signs did you...
Hi @out2019. I'm sorry you felt you had to force yourself to feel those things you cannot feel. What got you out of being stuck for so long?
Thanks for clarifying. I will ask though, what happens if as a woman or man, you truly believe that you were once attracted to a member the...
@BiGemini87, thank you for sharing some parts about yourself with me. Forming friendships with woman as an adult (I’m not sure how old you are and...
@Chip, you are right. There is no genuine sexual attraction that I feel towards men and the opposite sex. There’s a lot of societal and family...
I know you did not mean that in a mean way. I do go in circles and find myself incredibly annoying repeating a bunch of what I have said in...
Thanks, @LostInDaydreams. I appreciate you listening to my story for a bit.
You're right. It's probably best not to go on here and ask these types of questions. Only I can know what is truly going on. Usually, it's been...
Thank you for the support. It's been such a confusing experience! I hope my new therapist will be helpful too. We will see! I guess I haven't met...
Previously, I had posted about self-esteem affecting dating choices. That when I feel good about myself, I want to date girls and when I don't, I...