You talk about trying out a date. I recently travelled around Europe for 5 weeks and got a propositioned by a guy in a bar , I felt no desire to...
Thanks for all the replies. In terms of non-porn fantasies, it's women. I can think about women I find attractive at work etc. I can't do that...
So I posted a few years back but I'm still struggling with myself and who I am. I'm 34 and currently live alone. Anxiety and compulsive...
Dreams often reflect what we’re worried about, not necessarily our true selves. So if we are worrying about sexuality we may have a dream...
After being a heavy user of porn it’s taken a while for me to even be sure of my natural fantasies, my brain just naturally went to a porn scene....
Sounds like some sort of anxiety disorder. You may well be feeling insecure in yourself and projecting this onto other men, who seem more...
Hello, I’ve previously posted on here about my own issues with porn/sexuality and trying to work myself out. Giving up porn has not been easy and...
I think this nails it. Porn can be especially arousing for all sorts of reasons. Bee I this is a good description. Porn can be arousing for all...
Again, sounds similar to myself. I’ve never felt the desire to meet up with anyone or act on anything I’ve seen in porn but at the time is is...
If you feel attraction to both sexes in real life then I’d say you’re bisexual.
Hello, well done for posting and I’m sorry to hear of your anguish. Many things you say resonate with my experience so I can fully appreciate how...
I agree with this. Quitting porn did, eventually, bring more clarity. Beware though, if you have been a heavy user and have compulsion issues you...
When you are highly anxious and having these obsessions nothing is going to give you a picture of yourself, especially porn. All I can do is...
The problem I find with porn is that it can escalate and become obsessive. This can mean real life sexual interaction becomes relatively boring...
I think porn is different for different people. I think most people can use it as a natural aid to their sex life, but for me it became a real...
Do you feel like your attractions are in any way forced or moulded by society, rather than your innate attraction? If not then I’d say it’s...
Personally I would say the most important thing is your in life experiences, that is ultimately how we will live our lives ‘in person’ rather than...
As has been said, this sounds like something quite serious mentally that you need professional help from. We aren’t going to be able to give you...
I’ve had similar issues to yourself, it’s mental torture. Nothing will be clear to you when are in a cycle of pointless and painful checking. I’d...
Ok. I haven’t really experienced the same. I’ve never felt attracted to men in real life but have used gay porn. I’d say trust your instincts and...
