Speaking from my own experience, I have a hard time opening up to any kind of vulnerability, which includes feeling awkward when I'm physically...
Ouch. It sounds like he's using you at his convenience. And since you like the guy and live with him, it's going to be really difficult to get...
Wow, can I feel your pain. I will say, yes, it can work out to stay married. But that requires commitment from both of you to the marriage. Some...
I don't think you're in the wrong at all. You negotiated a hookup, and now he's expressed interest in it being more. You don't want that, and you...
You could be right. Thanks for thoughts. I do want what's best for her, and I have always been respectful of her choice.
It did have a traumatic effect. Thank you, @Mirko , and I'm sure that's related to other things that have happened in my life. It was very hard to...
What a difficult position to be in. I'm sure others will have better advice than I could give. But I do know what it's like to realize you're...
I hope things are ok for you and you get a negative result!
Thank you @QuietPeace and @Tartanskrt . You've both helped so much. It helps just to admit my feelings "out loud." I did see a therapist, and it...
I don't know if anyone can relate to this, but I literally created an account because of this. Quick backstory: happily straight-married 22...