Great . Am sure it feels good not having to hide anything anymore.
One one end there is some truth to what you are saying. A lot of non-LGBTQIA’s don’t know anything beyond are you gay or straight? A close...
@Cinnamoon Listen am sorry if I offended you or anything. If I did that it was certainly not my intention. Because I was trying to be helpful. I...
I like this a lot. It is a good message to hang onto if anything. Am thinking more and more about unlocking the door again after I barricaded it....
Yeah I know what you mean. It can be nerve racking at times But don’t be. Am sure you will do fine. The more you feel nervous the more this...
@Rayland yeah I know what you mean and feel. I don’t think it’s for everyone. I don’t know if i can do that. One relationship is plenty let alone...
That app can be as vicious as porn can be. Am not trying to be negative or anything. To each their own. But it’s not a very good way to build on...
So I have reading this book called “Conversations with friends” And now discovered the series. On the surface it might seem like a very casual...
I had many crushes on guys and girls. Most of them I think were straight although am not sure. I can’t really tell until now if a person really is...
Hi @tommyj Its good that a weight has been lifted off your chest now that you came out to your wife and all. I know from your earlier threads...
@quebec has written a very good post about the stages. And coming to terms with your sexuality. So has some of the other advisors and posters....
You are right about desire, fantasy, attractions, arousal along with behavior off course. Taking action versus exercising constraint. It’s...
Yeah exactly I agree with most of what’s already been said. I have developed similar views over time. Because sex is only one part of human...
Thanks for your post. Yeah and I think you are on the right track. I figured as much from other member’s replies and doing some reading. So yeah...
Very interesting observations in this last post. especially this one. I have noticed the same thing about men and women regardless of their...
Some good and solid advice has been written so far. I don’t know if I can add more to help since I don’t really have much experience of coming out...
Aren’t we all sometimes. So listen. You were in the navy? Right?. What was it like back then? Am sure there were plenty of handsome guys. Were you...
I know how how it feels. This the dilemma. When one is so inclined. Especially if one is more or less 50/50 bi. Both relationships with a man and...
Yeah I know what you mean. Do you think emotions and sexuality are separate things. I know it’s a bit of a taboo topic that’s debated and...
Have you thought about it being the other way round? I mean if you were living with a guy and your main relationship is with a guy. Would you be...