I feel like many women who are married stay married after coming out and struggle with whether they are bisexual or lesbian. I know I don't want...
I told my husband and he listened but then never brought it up again. Didn't ask questions. This response strangely shut me down - I'm not sure...
I've always dressed 100% lesbian stereotype (flannels, beanies, baggy cargo pants, doc martens, chucks) and NO one has ever commented or indicated...
I'm in the same position as you, and in fact wanting to hold onto the life we earned is a common theme for midlife coming out stories. I know from...
It's never too late to be who you really are, even if getting there takes a long time. During covid you can reach out and make friends online,...
Thank you! I do hope to meet some friends to chat with here, it seems like a welcoming place.
I'm a queer woman halfway out of the closet but still in a 20 year straight marriage that I'm fearfully considering ending. The pandemic has...
I’m a woman married to a man for 20 years (2 kids). Our marriage has suffered from poor communication and intimacy for years, and in the last year...
Two books about this: Married Women Who Love Women by Carren Strock, and Living Two Lives by Joanne Fleisher. I wish there was a support group for...
Relate to all of this, my marriage was ending (we were separated) and I was gathering courage to come iut and move on when the pandemic returned...
This is a comforting thought, thank you.
How are you thinking you might meet women and start dating (if interested)? Ive tried dating apps just to chat with people. At this point I just...
I made a list for myself of signs over the years and laughed at how long it was - no one thing seemed obvious to me when it was happening. I think...
I believe this and I appreciate it even though I know it's hard to leave something for nothing. I've experienced infidelity in the past and know...
I think this is good advice. I did this last year and it was clear that once I am away, I find some footing to move on. Its when I’m back home...
I have sort of done this, I usually end up stuck by an overwhelming fear of divorce even if the pros add up. But that can’t be the right reason to...
I really understand what you’re going through about the dilemma of leaving a stable marriage for an untested feeling. I’m in the same spot and...
It really helped to hear your story and that you’re happier now, I appreciate you sharing it. I think you were brave to move forward and I relate...
Thank you for your thoughts, I think you’re absolutely right about the dilemma of putting pressure on a new relationship if you jump straight into...
