I may be the oddball on this topic, so in advance I ask and thank you for your patience and acceptance (that I have always felt when visiting this...
Hi! Great topic and will surely get the self-evaluation tendencies going at full speed. I honestly find this question difficult to answer - or at...
Wow - would it be too cheesy if I just say: DITTO! I cannot tell you how eager I was to “absorb” everything about by “new self/new life/new...
I couldn’t agree more! There have been a few instances where people in my life tried to tie my one time being sexually assaulted/raped at age 11...
That’s pretty much my same experience - horrible intense pain the entire time the needles pierced their way through - but after a few weeks the...
Finally at peace and comfortable in my own skin.
These three things stood out the most in my eyes, and really ring true for me. Human (and that’s the key word on all this) sexuality is definitely...
Agree - people should not have to act any way other than who they are...the sad part is, some feel they “have to” or are forced to act a certain...
Sorry got cut off... I wasn’t consciously able to be attracted to a man (his looks etc.) but when I thought about sex, that’s when it felt...
Hi @ John C89! I’m understand what you are going though is difficult and confusing. And please, do not take anything I say here as an insult or...
Ok - this may be getting into the weeds, going down the rabbit hole a bit...but it is related to the topic of “are you a top or bottom?”...
point well taken... My low top and high top all stars have some serious mileage on them as well, and are some of my most comfortable shoes - but...
100% completely agree! Well said. I’d be mortified and thoroughly offended if a coworker or family member asked this if me...
Ok, point taken. I can see that would be extremely annoying and disrespectful, especially if f the question was framed that way and from a source...
I don’t find it rude or inappropriate for someone to ask position/preference...and I wouldn’t be offended if someone were to ask me. I agree that...
I couldn’t agree more - it did , and DOES, have an impact on my life and it’s those very same loving people I had in my life that finally made it...
I always have to have a brand new pair of leather Vans “Old School” skate shoes on hand - you never know. The condition of a mans shoes says a lot...
I’d just add - don’t force it. Let things happen organically. If the mood strikes you or your partner to try something new/different, go with it.
ah, got it! Sorry, I’m “slow” lol I can’t think of any particular mannerisms that I have that would/could be specific to being gay and the LGBTQ...
Sorry - one more quick thing: can I ask what LGBT stereotypes exist in your eyes? Is “masculine” or “straight acting” stereotypes?
