What a wonderfully positive message for us all.
You are absolutely correct having a BF and making love is a beautiful experience. Allowing your BF to penetrate you is both humbling and...
Like so many here I would have never imagined living an openly gay life just a few years ago. It is so wonderful to live gay without reservations,...
Searching, I totally understand as this is exactly how I felt when I once and for all said I didn’t find women sexually attractive and in reality...
For sure, it is truly a relief to be able acknowledge that women hold no sexual interest for you. The pretending and faking is over. The relief is...
DCH you are without a doubt in a tough situation. We all have been there for the most part. Finding a reasonable and honest way out is owed to...
Not sure how this would be possible. It would make more sense if you were bi. Moving forward would mean embracing and living your life as a gay...
My experience has been that gay doesn’t disappear if you ignore it. Over time the desire to be with another man intensifies to the point it...
It would seem you have reached that critical tipping point regarding your sexuality. It certainly seems based on your posts that your internalized...
I don’t know what the psychological process is but this is so true. It’s seems we reach a tipping point where we can no longer override our same...
This is a very difficult task when viewed in conjunction with internalized homophobia which I firmly believe is a product of the heteronormative...
It truly is horrible that many of us due to either internalized homophobia or society’s irrationality about same sex attraction forced us to live...
At the very beginning of starting to acknowledge my same sex attraction I argued with myself. I can’t be gay because I have been with women and...
It is very true that after you begin to acknowledge your same sex attraction heterosexuality starts to become a burden you can no longer carry....
You are at an important crossroad in your sexual evolution. Finally admitting to yourself that your gay is very powerful. As you embark on your...
Again so well said. Gay sexuality and its sexual practices should be looked upon as a normal expression of love and passion between two men. There...
This is so well said!
This is such a great thread. Men being able to liberate themselves from compulsory heterosexuality. Finally getting past their societal induced...
You control that surrender, you need to accept your gay self and take the steps necessary to embrace it. This is a journey only you can take. It...
Surrendering to your gay passions will serve to liberate you from the thought of losing control. Quite frankly finally overcoming the denial frees...