Glad you are back @baristajedi I disappeared for a while too. I am grateful for so many things and holding onto them has literally saved my...
It is definitely a process that takes time and effort. Did I mention lots of crying? Know your considerations. Have the difficult...
It doesn’t matter what you have or have not done, your sexual attraction is what it is. Orientation is determined by attraction not by action....
Haha yeah that would be the other way around. Looking back I was the lesbian bestie who she could trust hanging out with her boyfriends. Honestly...
Ah Mary Chapin Carpenter. Another one of my celebrity crushes. I find myself changing the pronouns is songs now a days.
@GusCat It is clear you are overwhelmed and I strongly recommend that you reach out for help locally if you haven’t already. This forum is a great...
I think straight women like the attention they are getting and since there isn’t sexual attraction it feels safe to them. Trouble is, it tears up...
I am so sorry you experienced that. Some things are not okay. Process the pain and the hurt so you can one day open your heart to another. You...
Playlist for @Peterpangirl Games People Play - Alan Parsons Project You’re So Vain - Carly Simon Big Girls Cry - Sia Wide Awake - Katy Perry I...
Found the old thread from May 28, 2018, the problem with labels, posted by Peterpangirl. You may find that discussion helpful. As with anything...
@Soulstone The coming out process is a tumultuous one. Waves of self doubt. Wondering which label applies. There is a Ted Talk titled 50 shades...
Can totally relate. I am into women not men. There were all the signs. My sexuality is my sexuality regardless. It doesn’t take sleeping with...
A big surprise for me is how much more affectionate I am. I didn’t realize how much I was avoiding contact. Now I can be still in an embrace,...
Pretty sure I am out of the closet. I wore my Pride volunteer shirt from last year at work on Friday. I have had a picture of Danica Patrick...
Please remember you are not alone. I know it feels that way. The need for connection and being understood is a strong one. When we see ourselves...
It is an amazing feeling to finally find yourself in a stormy sea of expectation. It is like being in the eye of the hurricane. <insert song...
I feel like a kid again. In fact I put my sons old skate board in the trunk. Just need to get the nerve up to get it out and actually skate....
You are not weirdo. For the first year after coming out I wanted to talk about attractions and what I was feeling. (Still do but is was more...
Below is the title of a Ted Talk that was instrumental in helping me understand the spectrum concept of sexuality. Fifty shades of gay (iO...
Congratulations on the job! Thank you for posting your experience. It was beautifully written. Loved the paragraph about realizations. Can totally...
