@eron I cannot really speak to your direct question since I am attracted to both men and women sexually and, I assume, romantically. Although, I...
@BiBoyToy Since you have been in a relationship with a man, I would say that is a pretty good indicator that you are NOT straight. Have you...
Hey @old tacoma of course it is difficult to put ourselves in other’s positions. I am not lecturing or taking a moral high ground here. I am...
Could be because you are now more accepting of your same sex attractions. Also, it could be the “forbidden fruit” aspect. Sometimes we want...
I guess my question is this. If you are, actively, seeking a relationship with a man and that is what completes you, why stay in the marriage?
Hey I was married to a woman for nearly 30 years before I told her I was bisexual. She is accepting of it and I do have a FWB that she knows and...
Hey @old tacoma it sounds like you made a real connection with this guy. So, I have to ask. Where do you see yourself going with this? Is it...
@old tacoma I think you will find that the gay community, in a lot of places, at our age, is pretty connected. It is not all that uncommon for...
Well. You could well be bisexual. Sexuality is a spectrum. Most of us are somewhere between totally gay and totally straight. Those towards...
When you masturbate, do you fantasize about men or women?
I wanted to express something on this forum that I think should be reinforced once in awhile for new readers... it is, usually, a very bad idea...
@old tacoma The issue isn’t about your friend’s relationships. He isn’t on this forum discussing his situation. So, we can only guess. What...
your sexuality is not evil. It does not make you a villain.
I agree with @quebec that you should try and discuss what you have written here in detail with your therapist. Especially, considering how you...
My take is that your wife does think something might be going on and wants to check it out. Just because you haven’t, actually, had intimacy with...
@old tacoma Ripping off the bandaid would involve you just telling your wife you are gay and leaving the house. What you appear to be doing is...
@old tacoma Are you sure having your gay lover to your house for Thanksgiving is a good idea? Regardless of your current state of intimacy with...
@Decent one I am afraid there is a parallel to my life here that is going to be a bit of an issue for us both moving forward. My wife, also,...
@DecentOne I understand the type of friend you desire. Do you sometimes wonder if a man on the high end of the Kinsey scale can feel the same...
I understand the difference in orientation and behavior. But, I think one of the things that confuses some of us (I was in the camp that I could...
