@Jevrett I was 40 when I finally acknowledged I was gay. It was a difficult decision to make in many ways - two small children, and still actually...
It depends on what it is that makes you feel the desire to be with a man. Is it the physical act of having sex - being penetrated with a toy -...
I've replied to your wall post JToivonen, but if you approach this with the focus that you are not destroying your family, etc, but being your...
It's about six years or so that I came out to my, now, ex-wife. I have children who, at that time, were quite young. It was the second most...
I'd tend to agree with silverhalo on this. I've dipped in and out of your journey and your break-ups which have, from the honest way you've...
I've been out for 6 years now. I was married and with my ex-wife for almost 19 years, with two children. I didn't plan it. I didn't believe I...
When my ex-bf and I broke up just over three years ago now, I realised that he'd been less than honest with me about a few things. How he really...
The signs had been there for years, but I was always able to explain it away as a phase, or everyone sits on a spectrum kind of thing. But meeting...
It sounds tough, the situation you are in. Living at home with your parents, in your twenties, is the reality for many nowadays, so it's nothing...
Thanks Rade We all make a sacrifice but as you say being able to live authentically and as the real you is priceless. It can all work out. It...
Hi Daytonav8r I’m glad you’re finding support through the threads. We’ve each tread our own path to get to where we are now. Some of us are...
Thank you! I don’t hold myself out to be anything other than an ordinary guy who just wants an “ordinary” relationship and life with another guy...
It really is. He’s not perfect but it’s one of the many things I love about him. His imperfections and mine mean we know who each other are and we...
Thank you! Champagne has been drunk already and more to come over Christmas. Be true to yourself. Stick to your values and principles and don’t...
I came out to my wife of 15 years last weekend. I'd been struggling with my feelings for months and when she asked me outright if I still felt...
So, he said Yes. ❤️❤️
I have Patrick, really a lot of thought. I decided that April wasn't the right time and, once I had it in my head that it was 'too soon' I got...
And another one here. It's five years since I separated from my, now ex-wife. It was traumatic for both of us, as you've described the waves kept...
What you've described is pretty similar to what I experienced. Together for almost 19 years, and then the inevitable happened. I've poured out...
So I am about a week away from the proposal I have been spent the last few months planning. We are off on a short weekend trip to Scotland and I...
