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positive interactions surrounding queer topics

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by GayRoachGal, Aug 27, 2023.

  1. GayRoachGal

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    The following are positive interactions that actually happened to me.
    I hope this gives you a bit of a spark and you enjoy :}

    number 1:
    this is about my gay relative who does drag.
    my aunt told me that if i wanted to she would get his mobile number and i could call him and talk about stuff that straight people wouldnt get lol.

    i was like “i wanted to tell him soon anyways so maybe”

    my aunt went “yeah its just a shame he’s so busy all the time”

    number 2:
    me: theres something stuck in my straw

    aunt: ill just stick it in the dishwasher

    me: oop! there it just came out..... like me

    aunt: not officially yet though

    me: most people know now, there was a rumour going around about it ages ago

    aunt: and why didnt i know about this?

    me: i just never told you
    Number 3( I have posted about this before):
    my aunt did something really nice for me recently that I thought should be acknowledged, I was talking to her about a gay meme I had seen earlier that day and then she told me she tried to buy me a rainbow pride plush but they were all sold outtt( happy tears). like I know she was supportive.. but I didn't realise just HOW supportive she was... shes a mfing legend.


    BONUS!! A positive queer experience of a friend:
    “do you want me to call you they?”

    the words that gave my friend huge gender euphoria

    months ago i made my friend a pronoun pin and they wore it today at our musical, their jacket blew open a bit and a teacher( that is CHRISTIAN!!!) saw it and asked “would you like me to call you they?" because i don’t know unless you tell me”. i was standing over not far away and heard it go down, then my friend came over and we both walked off in shock because that’s NEVER happened before.

    now i kind of want to tell this teacher i go by she/they but she knows my family so they might found out( parents r transphobic and my aunt is a bit confused on they/them pronouns but is slowly getting better)
     
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    forgot one!
    i was looking through a catalogue and saw disney pride plushies, i wanted one but was like “ehhh, might not end well" so i kind of just left it on the side then my aunt pointed them out to me “look! Rainbow stitch!” And i was like “yeah i was looking at that but i dont know". Im so tempted to ask if she could buy me a pride flag off temu now because she is clearly a great ally.
     
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    Aww this is so wholesome. Thank you for sharing. :heart_eyes: