A nice guy I met on vacation

Yes, I'll play it by ear tomorrow. but he contacted me three times before asking me out. I'm not sure what to do, but the suggestion to go slow instead of lunging in for a kiss makes total sense. I'm a little worried he is reading this too and on a different thread asking how to approach me. Maybe so. or maybe one of you guys is him, cheering me on! Anyway, he is defiantly interested in something, even though I might only be friend zoned

 

we went on the hike. unfortunatley, some A-hole along the way invites himself on the trip. The A-hole ruined the whole thing! One good thing, though, is during the brief time we were together, the friend I have a crush on said a few things, two in fact, that indicate he is thinking about me the same way I am thinking about him. And also, now that he has asked me out twice, it is my turn to ask him out. As we were parting I said we need to go out for dinner soone. So I was actually online to ask him out

 

he told me two entirely different stories where guys tried to seduce him. he insisted he 'wasnt into that'. both stories I smiled sweetly. Straight guys dont tell stories about getting seduced by men. we are going out again soon

 

I'm tending that way too. I am afraid he might scam me. In his little world it is OK to do that to people, he sees nothing wrong with it. He might even have several scams going on besides me I might be his next victim. the big head should do the thinking here. beware!
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Yes. I'm not too old, but I should be old enought to know better. If it looks too good to be true, it probably is.The small head was thinking for the big head. Time to bolt!

 

he's just saying too many things he wants me to hear. Its a little too good to be true. Maybe someone else will crop up in my life now that I am searching

 

he's not local. he is a foreigner like me. he hasnt worked in years. i think once he got a taste of the freedom of not working and always playing on the hard earned money of other people that he scams, he will never go back to a real job. maybe he was scamming me. He was just saying whaty I wanted to hear, making it sound like he is available, but I think that is what he tells all the boys

 

Heres a problem, though. He has no idea I think this way about him. He has no idea I am concerned. He told me about this swindle on our first outing a week ago, he was ashahmed of it, so I don’t know why he told me. It was maybe a one off thing, although I assume if someone would do it once, they would do it again. Two times in the hour we were together, he told me stories where a guy had hit on him. Both times he sounded like he liked being hit on. The stories were told half an hour apart, completely unreated, and sounded pretty realistic. He did not make them up and were told as if he liked being hit on.

The thing is I don’t think he is on here at EmptyClosets and reading this.

As far as he knows, we are still planning a date soon. That was what we said as we parted company. He still does this thing where his hand bumps mine while we walk. I encouraged it, and bumped back.

As far as I was concerned, last time we went went on our outing, if we weren’t interupted, we might have kissed.

Were not done yet and I will be around him for a while.

I’m not sure if I still want to pursue him or not.

Maybe in an anonymous hotel room? A safe room?

 

Still here, if anyone cares. Two things if you read this:
He is not a criminal. I sort of put that together from circumstantial evidence. He's normal.
He is almost my same age. I don't know why I thought he was much younger than me.
He likes talking about sex a lot.
one time he accidentally let it out that he thought a guy was really cute, and the guy hit on him, but he didn't do it.
One time I let out a Freudian slip that I don't have a boyfriend. It just sort of came out that way.
I'm just using this EC as a thinking board, wondering if I am headed for a relationship a one-night stand or nothing at all.
We keep getting closer, more intimate conversations in a way that guys just don't usually talk, or anyway I never had conversations with a man in this kind of sensual talk. Kind of like I talk to a girl if I have the hots for her, or if I think I might have a relationship with her. Maybe we are headed somewhere. I keep thinking of being in bed with him

 

Yesterday we spent together. It was a pleasant day. He likes to talk about Sex a lot. In fact, the conversation is pretty much centered on sex all day.
the first part of this thread my concerns were that he was much younger than me and that he is a criminal.
Neither is true. He is almost as old as me, and although his livelihood is a little off-beat, he is required to pay taxes on them, so I guess it's legitimate.
Gay porn came up in the conversation; I think he was probing to see if I ever watch it. He mentioned it in a joking way, but with a note of seriousness and I do think it was testing the waters to find out if I watch Gay porn. He started the conversation about Gay porn.
During the day, I somehow brought up a certain kind of young man I find attractive. He kept the conversation going as long as he could, and referred back to it a few times, maybe to test my interest.
He told me he considers himself cute, despite his age. We send each other cute little things online

 

No, not yet. Only the little bumping of hands we do all the time. I am trying to figure out if he is waiting for me to go first? I somehow don't think so. As I said, he likes talking about sex. That is mostly what we talk about, and he is more experienced than me. We touch lightly, flirt a little, and he sort of puts himself into a position where I think of trying it. I hinted several times that I am available and pretty much through with women and that I am looking for something but I can't quite 'put my finger on it'. My hints are getting stronger. I sort of want him to give me a suggestive caress, even just a stroke on the back. Or should I do it first? I don't know. I am not sure he has any experience with men. But when we are together, I get the impression he is interested. I am getting bolder in my hints, and so is he. He asked if I watch gay porn, egging me on when I was telling a story about a young gay guy, talking about sex for several hours straight. We ate together and he told me several sexual conquest stories. I think about him all day. We are going someplace soon, on a little outing. Yesterday I was the one who asked him out. We have such a nice time together. I am afraid I might get friend-zoned, but also afraid I will scare him if I let my feelings out too abruptly