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Making myself at home…

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by I'mStillStanding, May 5, 2022.

  1. I'mStillStanding

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    Yesterday I was talking with a straight guy and it was just a great convo! He was finally like, “It’s cool seeing how confident you are being gay and all… you didn’t just come out the closet! You’re in the living room, sitting on the sofa with your feet on the table!” I died! I couldn’t think of a better way to describe being comfortable with this after everything I went through coming out hahahahahaha it’s nice to hear someone see that when I’m just being chill… no pretenses, no worries, just me!
     
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    That's really good to hear. :slight_smile: I'm glad it's been such a positive experience, especially since it often takes us awhile to become comfortable with any aspect of who we are.
     
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    Excellent! I loved reading your post :slight_smile: :slight_smile: :slight_smile:
     
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    I'mStillStanding.....That has got to be the best description of being comfortable with yourself that I've ever heard!
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    Loved reading this! Your post brought a smile on my face @I’mStillStanding
     
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    It is wonderful to read that you are feeling at ease and are yourself. You have come a long way and have worked so hard to be where you are today. So proud of you.
     
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    Thank you all :slight_smile: it really has been a crazy ride! I mean… I guess I settled into it and just didn’t notice… I should have… I’ve been carrying a bag, using makeup, getting my nails done, getting ears pierced… all these things I always wanted to do but never did because of what everyone already said about me and finally I realIzed they gonna talk anyway so oh well! EC really helped me get it together and I will always be grateful for this place!
     
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    Love hearing this! Congrats!
     
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