Hi, I‘m Anonymous (as you can tell ) and here for help support and advice. I am still in school and not outed to the majority of the people in my life. Only a select group of school friends know about my sexuality. My sexuality itself is quite complicated. I’m Demi-Panromantic Asexual. Basically I can fall in love with any gender and the gender doesn’t bother me or affect my feelings at all (Panromantic). I only feel attracted to someone after knowing them for quite a long time, so far it takes years of friendship. So when my school friends talk about having crushes during the first few weeks of knowing someone I am always completely confused (demiromantic). And finally I do not feel a sexual attraction to anyone. I am fine with hugging and kissing and I do enjoy those things, but that’s about it. (Asexual). yeah so I’m here to maybe find people like me and to get my feelings down because it’s all very bottled up at the moment. hope you have a good day
GreenAnonymous.....Hello and a great big LGBTQIA+ welcome to Empty Closets! I can remember the first post that I made on EC. I was desperate for help and I got the help that I so needed. I hope that we can help you in the same way that I received help. The most important thing to remember about Empty Closets is that we do care about you! We're very glad that you found us here on EC and hope that we can answer questions, give support if you need it and provide a place to vent (as long as it's not violent!) when that becomes necessary! There are 18 different sub-forums here that you can check out and join in the conversations or start your own thread/conversation. In particular you may want to check out the forum that is titled "Sexual Orientation”, there are a lot of people there who have dealt with some of the same kind of problems that are challenging you. *****When you have made at least 10 posts on various threads you will be able to post messages on a member's Profile Page. Just click on a member's Avatar Picture and then click on "Profile Page" in the dialogue box that pops up. You'll then be on their Profile Page and there will be a box that says: "Write Something" When you have been on EC for a few weeks and have made at least 50 posts on various forums, you can apply for Full Membership. A Full Member can send Private Messages (PM) to other Full Members and share personal contact info. Right now you can only send a PM to a Staff Member as that is always possible. Here is a quote from the Full Membership information forum: *****To be eligible you must be a member of Empty Closets for a minimum of two weeks, and have a minimum of 50 posts. These posts must be across numerous forums (Fun & Games does not contribute to post count), and consistently posted across a minimum of two weeks. You wouldn't be eligible, for example, if you registered, had no activity for two weeks, and then returned to post 50 times on your 14th day of membership. *****Well, as I said, we're very glad you found us! If you have any questions at all, you can post a question on my Profile Page or send me a Private Message. .....David
Hi, welcome. I'm new to this site as well. I get what you mean that it takes time to build relationship. I'm surprise by people who just click. I'm homoromantic and I think homosexual. I like the relationship part, being the bestest of best friends, how cheesy is that, and the sexual stuff is there.
