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Height difference in relations

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by JoeLaJoe, Aug 28, 2021.

  1. JoeLaJoe

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    Is height difference with your partner is important to you?
     
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    Not really, I have mostly been with people about my height or a little taller (I am slightly shorter than an average woman in the USA where I am from where the average is 5' 4 1/4" or 163 cm) though I have been with people quite a bit taller. I do find taller women attractive though.
     
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    I think that as long as you love your partner and they love you, then the height difference won’t matter.
     
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    Patriarchy, heteronormativity & the stereotypes within. It is a standard belief that the man must be bigger and more powerful. It makes sense that you would feel that but coming to a site filled with people who defy heteronormativity and stereotypes you will find many who will also go against the height issue.
     
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    When I’m checking out a guy, I admit that I “size him up.” I like him to be my height more or less. Maybe an inch or two different is fine. I never say anything outwardly to him because height is not something that anyone can do anything about. It’s purely physical and there are way more important aspects to a person. But physically I have more fun with a guy about my height (and weight). I enjoy being evenly matched.
     
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    My partner (who I got with recently) is 5'7, Im 5'10-5'11, in all honesty depending on the dynamic of your relationship (if you have one) people tend to care about height a lot (for obvious reasons) but guess what?
    Height doesn't matter
    When I look at my partner and the way they smile it still warms my heart, no height difference could ever change that