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What's Your Story of Coming Out to Yourself?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by LilLady9, Feb 21, 2021.

  1. Rayland

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    Reading everyone’s experiences is very intresting. I have pretty much known all of my life, that I like men. A woman did flirt with me once, but it only made me uncomfortable, since they were in a relationship. I did went to a date once with a man too, but I didn’t feel any click and the guy wasn’t my type either. I have never really questioned my sexuality, but then again I don’t have lots of experience either. These terms gay, bi, lesbian and so on were unfamiliar for me until high school.
     
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  2. Tikimon20

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    I do...or at least most of the time. I was in denial for so many years that just coming out as bi has been a big step.
     
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    Also, my attraction to men allows me to be submissive in ways I can't be with a women.
     
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  4. LilLady9

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    I totally understand. My biggest fantasy is to find a woman that likes a sexually submissive man. At this point, I'm not convinced they exist though... Haha... I just settle for pursuing women for the things I like about them and pursuing men for the things I like about them... Which is very different.
     
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