Love dominant white men more than other types? I can't help it and it makes me feel conflicted. What does everyone else think?
@asianboi — Hello, and welcome to EC! As Ingvermama says, each of us has our preferences, and it’s ok. It was for me a gradual process, but at a certain point I realized that I’m definitely attracted to asian guys. It was because I am attracted not only to physical traits but also cultural values. They are equally important to me. I say, go for it!
I wouldn't say it's wrong, but just be aware of age gaps and the dynamics of these relationships. There is sometimes a fine line between strength and assertiveness (good characteristics) and control and abuse (negative characteristics). Ask yourself why you seek a domineering partner and then think about the boundaries you wound need to apply in such a relationship. How far would you want it to go?
I mean, as long as you're not fetishizing anyone you can't help what you're attracted to. I'm attracted to, well not domineering exactly but assertive men. I think a lot of gay guys are attracted to that. As for dating outside your race, again as long as you are attracted to them as a person first and foremost, I can't see how that is a problem.
