Well to be honest comments like these are the reason why I'm never open about it in real life. I'm scared that people will reply say that I have self pity and that I should seek help etc. I'm simply telling the reason why I believe i'm a virgin at 47 years old. I don't need any sympathy. I was just curious if I could have contact with other people in a similar situation or atleast read their experiences. I just wanted to know if they're open about it and how they handle tough to deal with- questions. If they share it friend. Their reason why they believe they're virgin and well many other questions.