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confused and curious married woman...

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by eccentric2, Mar 15, 2021.

  1. eccentric2

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    Hi! I'm a married woman for 18 years with 2 kids. I'm in my 40s, and yet it's only now that I'm became confused in myself. I know i have an eye for a girl since I'm a teen, but I never have tried to be in a relationship. I dont know if i am just a curious woman, or am I really a bi??... As i read threads in this forum, i know i'm not on these matters alone... hope to find companionship here... :grimacing:
     
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    Hi @eccentric2 and welcome to EC. :slight_smile:

    You are certainly not alone. I also questioned my sexuality whilst in a long term heterosexual relationship and found EC to be a great source of understanding and support. I hope that you find being part of the EC community to be a positive experience too.
     
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    @LostInDaydreams Thank you for the warm welcome!
    Hope to find sunshine under the dark clouds.
     
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    Welcome to EC, @eccentric2! You're definitely in good company.

    You'll find a lot of people here who have experienced some of what you're feeling, so hopefully the more stories you read and the more people you talk to, the clearer things will become. :slight_smile:
     
  5. Suitsme

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    Hi, I was 38 and married when I came out to my husband and family. I too always knew I loved women. You’re definitely not alone
     
  6. SkipNY

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    Not alone at all, eccentric. No matter your gender, age or status -- a lot of us are wondering and exploring. Best of luck.
     
  7. eccentric2

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    Thanks a lot! Replies from this site change me.... Change my perception about my situation and always excites me to read old threads and posts, knowing the challenges everyone of us faced.
    Again thank you all, and looking forward to finally admit who I am.
     
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    eccentric2.....Hello and a great big LGBTQ+ welcome to Empty Closets! :old_smile: There is a sub-forum here on EC that is titled "Sexual Orientation". If you post there I think you'll find people who will understand how you feel and will be able to offer support and understanding! We are so glad that you have found us here on Empty Closets!
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    You are definitely not alone. I can't relate to the married with kids but I am 33 and I have been questiong my se