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Hey from South Africa

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Michel0001, Jan 26, 2021.

  1. Michel0001

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    I’m Michel, I’m a hetero-questioning male. Currently in a relationship with a woman, it’s going well but my attraction to men does sometimes make me wonder if I’ve made the right choice. I really love her and want to be with her but a part of me feels that I’m being inauthentic to myself and to her. I’m 36, and I’ve never had sex with a man, I’ve played around with guys and fantasised a lot, in fact I fantasise about it daily and watch mostly gay porn.

    Anyway, glad to get it off my chest somewhere at least.

    Happy to be a member.
     
  2. HM03

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    Hi Michel, and welcome! Hope EC is able to provide you with some clarity :slight_smile:
     
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    Michel.....Hello and a great big LGBTQ+ welcome to Empty Closets! There are a number of subforums here on EC...why don't you check them out and then feel free to join in the conversations! We are so glad that you have found us here on EC!
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    Hi Michael, welcome to the community! Feel free to read through member's threads and posts, and of course share your own thoughts and feelings. :slight_smile:
     
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    Hey there... a lekker Cape Town welcome to the forum. Enjoy :slight_smile:
     
  6. Michel0001

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    Thank you all for your wonderful replies and warm welcome!