Hi, I've been obsessing over this quite a lot recently and would like to try and get to the bottom of it. Up until the age of about 16/17 I watched straight porn exclusively and always liked it a lot, I would only ever see girls IRL that I was attracted to, only ever wanted a girlfriend etc. However, I ended up progressing onto trans and femboy porn and have been watching that alongside female porn for about 2-3 years now. I'll go through phases of watching one over the other for a few weeks and then switch again. Gay porn with masculine men doesn't do anything for me, I'm not interested in it at all. I'm not interested in guys in real life either. I can acknowledge when a guy's good looking but I've never seen a guy and thought about how I'd like to have sex with him or how I'd want to be with him or anything, whereas I've had those experiences countless times with women I've seen in the past. I cannot see myself in a relationship with a masculine guy at all. A relationship with a femboy or trans girl maybe, but it wouldn't be practical and it would probably be purely for sex, I don't think it would be very romantic. The trans/femboy porn has been much more arousing recently than straight porn but my views on women/men haven't changed at all. Could watching too much porn have made me desensitized to straight porn or am I just making up excuses? It's so frustrating because I really want a girlfriend, but there's always the thought in the back of my head where I just think there's no point because I probably wouldn't even be attracted to her in reality because I must be gay because I like trans porn. Sorry if this is written badly, kinda just wrote whatever came to me. I'm not sure if 'femboy' is considered a slur, apologies if it is.
i can give you an advice.Try to stop any sexual materials for 1-2 weeks.You will get an answer soon.Porn is like an drug-trip.You need more details.Better positions dirty things.Porn is a bad indicator for Orientation.Trust me try it with fantasies.Try it with same sex and change to girls.You will find exactly the answer
Porn is a bad way of determining anything about orientation. It is by design exciting and so it can excite you. Judge with real people If you are a man and attracted only to women then you are not gay you are straight. Trans women are women and thus being attracted to them means you are attracted to women and as a man that means that you are still straight. If you are going to approach anyone to just use them for sex please be honest about the fact that you do not respect them as a person and are just using them.
What about the femboys though? Wouldn't being aroused by a penis be somewhat bi at least? I didn't mean it like that at all, sorry. I wouldn't have a relationship like that just for sex. It was all hypothetical. Thanks for the reply though, I appreciate it.
