Transgender But No Dysphoria - How do I know?

I’ve been seriously considering this for about 3 weeks now. I think I might be trans, but I don’t experience any significant dysphoria (although I have a mild dislike for my genitalia, I don’t think that can be considered out-of-the-ordinary). Instead, it’s more of a impression I would have been happier if I was born female, being allowed to say things without it sounding out-of-place, act differently and with more... appreciable assets? I’m nowhere near the entire makeup thing but I find people’s opinions on social norms to be troublesome. You could argue that they have no reason to judge you, but that doesn’t stop someone from judging you anyway and treating you differently.

I realise it’s ultimately futile to ask for a diagnosis per se, but I seek a bit of guidance here on how to better determine my preferred identity.

Thanks

 

Just realised autocomplete had me name the post “transsexual” as opposed to “transgender”. Thought something was off there. Doesn’t appear to me an edit feature, but please rest assured that I understand the difference and that “transsexual” is deprecated terminology.