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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Shavs1, Aug 20, 2020.

  1. LostInDaydreams

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    1. I don’t know why they would be.
    2. No, never watched it.
    3. Yes and yes. On series three.
    4. Not at the moment, but it has been very short. I would consider going short again.
    5. Nope.
    6. No and I never will.

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    1. I've only dated one.. so im not sure but from my experience with my ex. Yes lesbians are clingy
    2. Yes and totally loved it
    3. Yes. I didnt really like the last season
    4. No
    5. No never did
    6. I did as a kid.. i would really like to again.
     
  3. Vesta

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    Are lesbians more clingy: No. I would say that's a personality trait rather than something related to sexuality.
    Have you seen the L word (and did you like it): I reached Season 4 and got bored.
    Have you seen Orange is the New Black (and did you like it): Yep! Watched the whole thing. I liked it a lot.
    Do you have short hair: Never.
    Did you dye your hair an unnatural color (blue, green, purple)?: Never dyed my hair.
    Did you ever ride on a motorcycle?: Nope.
     
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    Thanks. I've frequented the Late in Life forums a lot over the years, and they are the reason I finally took the step to join this community and start sharing my story too. Being on here has already helped me feel less alone and not crazy for my experience. Therapy has also helped tons, as I have a great LGBTQ friendly therapist who encouraged me to face my truth, that I'm a Lesbian and no longer want a heterosexual relationship.

    Thank you for the book recommendation. I

    'm only at the beginning stages of working towards a divorce, so here's hoping we keep things friendly and cooperate as we learn to navigate co-parenting.
     
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    Hi, I'm a lesbian newbie here. I hope every single one you lesbians and gays are all doing well and staying safe.
    I'm looking for a trusted girlfriend due to the fact I've been lonely since then.

    My dream is to become a writer. I'm also a cat lover. Any of you a cat lover too?
    I love Celtic music, Jazz, and retro music (80's and 90's).
     
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    Hello fellow lesbian. First and foremost, welcome to EC. I see you got here today.

    Second you will meet lesbians with a variety of different taste and attitudes here. Many are cat lovers even though personally I'm a dog person. I love 80s and 90s music as well. What is your favorite artist or band from these respective times?
     
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    Thank u for your comment. My favorite artists:
    • Enya Patricia Brennan (whom I have a crush on)❤️
     
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    Welcome to the site. :slight_smile:

    I can't say I'm a cat lover, though I don't mind them if friends have them.

    Certain Celtic music is nice, though I'm not too keen on music that's too slow. I have to be in the mood for it. At the moment I'm into more Nordic music that has a modern touch to it.

    What kind of writer are you aiming to be?
     
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    Thank you for complimenting.
    Book writer. Typically these times I'm going to write a book about how we the people can make the world a better place.
    • Have More Feminism
    • Plant More Trees (to cool the earth down)
    • Abolish Guns (keep violent men in prison forever)
    • Birth Control for 2nd and 3rd world countries (if possible)
    • No Plastic on Water or Land
    • Save the Endangered Species of Animals
    • Etc.
    *What else can you add to the list?
     
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    OMG. You just became my favorite person on this website and maybe one of my favorite in the world. I love that kind of book writing and agree with everything you listed. I join clubs, sign petitions, and more for all those things except the guns (that isn't as big an issue here compared to the U.S)

    I thought Americans from your state mostly thought a more conservative way. Not that we couldn't be friends if you did, but just that it is surprising. When you say you are from Georgia do you mean the American state or the eastern European country?
    Why did you decide to start writing about these things? Are you currently working on anything?
    Enya is a beautiful woman. I can see the interest.
     
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    If you're intending to write about real-world concerns etc, I would definitely say homelessness is one them. A US friend of mine also mentions to me a lot that many Americans who are rich get a lot of tax breaks, while the poorer citizens get taxed like crazy. That's not fair or right at all.

    I'd also say that having to pay for healthcare isn't right either. A person should be entitled to free basic healthcare as a right, not a privilege.
     
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    Hi all,

    Just a little reminder that whilst you are welcome to make friends here, EC should not be used for dating.
     
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    Awesome
     
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    Hello Eboni. Welcome to EC. What brings you here?
     
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    I have recently lost my bff who I was close with and my therapist was saying I should jion something like this to have support from my age group, and confidence!
     
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    My deepest condolences. Hopefully, this website can give you exactly what you need. There are many great community facilitators, senior members, and more who give great advice and are very supportive. And the whole community itself is very honest and supportive of each other. I hope we can all be of help to you.
     
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    Hi eboni welcome.
     
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    Hi prideowl welcome!

    Omg are you serious?! Retro and celtic wow!! I love retro 80s and 90s and the corrs omg my favorite band of all time. A fellow cat lover ☺ my fur baby is almost 3 years old.
     
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    I am a bit bothered by two things on the list

    "keep violent men in prison forever" - why not "violent criminals" instead. and my preference would to be to change prisons to mental health centers where everyone is treated and when (and only when) they are taught to be socially responsible they are reintegrated into society.

    Birth control for 2nd and 3rd world countries. why? how about access to "family planning for all". also 1st, 2nd, and 3rd world is an outmoded model. Better to say northern or colonial economic nations and southern or colonialised economic nations. Directing such things only to colonialised nations is just new deal colonialism.

    To add to the list

    Ban Armies
    Ban Capitalism - step one in the process would be basic income for all
     
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    I meant Georgia as the American state. I've lived in Georgia for 16 years now on and it seems lonely and not much of a safe place for women and girls let alone gays and lesbians. By the way, I've been homeschooled since after I was adopted in Ukraine. My mom who was a journalist had to quit her job to take care of me in Washington, D.C.
    I'm currently working on ecology, chemistry, comparative religion, and world history (mainly from real bonafide news).

    What I don't about Enya is that she's either gay, lesbian, bisexual, or straight. I feel sorry for her especially when she has to deal with privacy and protection. I also hope she is safe and doing well along with her family and friends.


    Sorry about that. The truth is the U.S is so misogynist and patriarchal that even the Republican and Democrat parties won't even let a female president win the Presidential election (remember 2016 election). Not only that, blame the electoral college.

    From what most of us have seen with the Black Lives Matter movement, see those black males looting and destroying large and small store businesses (some of them run by Asians and Latinos). Besides, these protests shouldn't go on forever especially during a virus pandemic.

    What I mean about the 2nd and 3rd countries is Africa, the Middle East, Asia, Mexico, and South America.
    They are high-breeding and religious. Asia is the only one country that has manage to control their population except the others.
    The United States has an immigration policy that is not worthy to us tax payers (illegal immigrants).

    To Be Continued