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Handkerchief code

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by PatrickUK, Aug 29, 2020.

  1. PatrickUK

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    Just as a matter of interest, have any of you heard of the handkerchief code? Came up in conversation on a different platform earlier and wondered if any/many of your had heard of it and knew what it meant. In these days of internet I kind of imagined it had died out and was really surprised to hear it mentioned.
     
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    I know all about it, but more as a relic of forgotten lore. I suppose I'm an elder of the tribe.
     
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    Yeah, I'm familiar with it. I have a buddy--he's a part of the underground gay leather scene--who wears a yellow hanky on his backpocket whenever we go out. One of his buddied is trying to introduce a black crossbones pattern hanky that's meant to represent necrophilia; whatever floats his boat, I suppose.
     
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    I've heard of it, but nobody really uses it anymore as far as I can tell. It's kinda pointless now when you can just ask what someone's into directly without anyone caring.
     
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    I have definitely heard of it. Like @Destin said though, I dont think anyone uses it anymore.
     
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    I know the general concept, but not the specifics. As other people said - I view it more as a "forgotten lore" kinda thing lol.
     
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    We'll maybe have to do an LGBT history thread and chuck the handkerchief code in there.

    I always pay special attention to the colour of pocket squares that business men and politicians wear. Could be kinda revealing. :laughing: