I am having doubts about my sexuality. I have a fetish to the sweat of men ( i am a male) and I am aroused by sweating men.I am not aroused by any sorts of gay porn but I am aroused only by straight porn .I am aroused by seeing a male body and face and like to know its sweat but the idea of sex with men turns me off.I am also emotionally attracted to females and like to have sex with a female. Adding to my fetish, I am aroused by male security guard standing for long hours and sweating but I do not fantasize having sex with them .Also my fetish towards sweaty men is more intense than the act of having sex with woman.Also I am having constant doubts and some ocd related issues as to whether I am gay or not? I am not at all interested in having sex with men but I am getting aroused by men sweating. I am mostly aroused by men who are being punished and helpless. Is it a fetish or am I gay?
I also get a tingly feeling towards seeing men ,but the idea of sex with them turns me off.Towards females I like having sex with them and has an emotional attachment. I also doubt myself and reassure myself and has been in a lot of confusion frequently.
Have you been in a relationship with women and/or men? A physical relationship, have you dated either? That is one way for you may be able to find out if your feelings towards them are real or if they're just a form of a fetish, fantasy or anything else. I realize dating men in India is not easy, but I'm asking if you have, anyway.
If you are interested in only dating women, then I'd say your 'tingly' feeling when you see men, might just be that. A tingly feeling. Nothing else.
