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Is lesbian sex just as good/better as straight sex?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Whywhy123, Jun 10, 2020.

  1. Whywhy123

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    Saw this on a different forum but not many people answered.

    I didn't see this asked here, and I want to know bi women's opinions
     
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    I would imagine it very much depends on the person, circumstances and compatibility.

    There must be a variety of good and bad experiences in all scenarios.
     
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    I have had sex with both. It’s different. Both can be bad, I assume both can be amazing too.


    Apart from being gay, I prefer experiences with women because they seem to care more, they are usually more in tune with their and my body and there is a genuine attempt to care about me, there is also much more communication and sex is usually about both in equal measures. With men I always felt like a sex doll. They do their thing and “too bad” if you didn’t come, it’s a lot about them I felt and much much less about you as a woman. They also don’t care much for trigger, they don’t seem to really care or want feedback? It also felt like sex was for them rather than for us.

    idk, I would need a 6 digit number to consider sleeping with a man again personally.
     
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    I agree with Linning , 100% and I’ve also been with both, it’s all about the right person. But I prefer lesbian sex , because I’m sexually and emotionally connected with a women than men. women can also have multiple ogasms.
     
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    I am a lesbian but having had sex with both men and woman, lesbian sex wins every time it really is out of this world
     
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    I prefer more with women . I had experience with men before coming out but I so agree with Linning that most of them really only cares about how they do it and the pleasure of the moment ,not much about the point of necessarily giving the pleasure to the other. That was my bad intimacy experience with men not generalizing them though but I think with women , we know where and how to touch or where to be touched and connect if that make any sense like sensually yet genuine intimacy . I guess women are more emotional than just physical esp in bed and what I experiencing , communication to both of us are vital and it helps a lot to talk about what makes you comfortable or what not and mind you it is really is mind-blowing.