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Question for bisexuals: If you really HAD to give up on one gender...

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Whywhy123, May 31, 2020.

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  1. Whywhy123

    Whywhy123
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    ...which one would it be and why?

    I know you hate this question (understandable) but I also know many bi people who have a definite answer
     
    #1 Whywhy123, May 31, 2020
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    Thats really not an easy one...but i would say i would give up men because with women i‘m having feelings i don‘t have with men. And i just prefer to have a woman around me, although i think i prefer sex with guys a bit more.
     
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    I understand the question, but I don't really care for the term "give up" on one gender. Instead I say I would chose to be with men sexually/romantically and just be friends with women. Although a lot of that is based on me being AMAB and I've seen too many times (mainly in TV/movies, but there must be some truth to it) that in heterosexual relationships, the man ends up on the losing end. The more I embrace my femininity the more I question that. I still think I would stick with guys and be friends with women.
     
    #3 LaurenSkye, May 31, 2020
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    I don't think you'll find one answer. For someone who is attracted to people and who they are rather than to the specific gender of the person, then they literally may have no preference. For others, they may be on the spectrum, but be somewhat toward one end or the other. It's likely not going to be the same for any two people.
     
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  5. Whywhy123

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    I was just curious
     
    #5 Whywhy123, Jun 1, 2020
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